Thanks. I might think about doing that, but I think it is wise to wait and see what the psychic medium I plan to use to contact him says. I will tell him what has been happening with the TV but I don't want to give him too much other information about my late husband or the circumstances of his death. I plan to play it by ear when I contact him.
That seems like a good strategy to me. My advice is that you not reveal any personal information about your late husband to the medium, including details about his life or personal character, the circumstances surrounding his death, or even his name. If the opportunity arises, I suggest that you have specific questions to ask your husband, but not so specific that the medium will catch on.
There aren't many people that I know in person who are aware of my medium abilities, but there are other paranormal investigators I know and trust who are. If one of them asks me to use my psychic medium abilities at a haunted location, I'll remind them that I don't want to know anything about their personal experiences there. If the location is a house, a building, another type of structure, or a public business, I don't want to know anything about the current or previous owners or the property's history. If I'm given a personal object to hold so that I can possibly connect with a spirit, then I will make it clear that I don't want to know anything about the person who owned that object before they passed away. It's important to me that I have a clear mind before doing a reading for another person or when I'm investigating a well-known or suspected haunted location. I want to be certain that my reading is accurate and has not been influenced by any suggestions or information I've received from other paranormal investigators or anyone else present.
I can't speak for other mediums, but that's what I do when I'm asked to give a reading or when I'm asked to use my abilities during a paranormal investigation. We, meaning psychic mediums, are all different, and most of us, if not all, have our own unique methods of connecting with and interacting with spirits. Most of us have fine-tuned our abilities in such a way that we can control them better.
