Yep. Don't engage with the "apostates" lest they provide you with a few uncomfortable home truths.
How would you know the "truth" about any of it? You believe what you want to believe because someone told you something you wanted to hear? You are entitled to do that, but remember that Christians accept that Jesus was the son of God who spoke nothing but the truth. (You don't have to believe that for it to be true) How was he treated? His own people believed the lies that others with a hateful agenda had spread about him too. They were talked into hating him enough to blackmail the Roman Govenor into executing him....by his own judgment, an innocent man. That is the truth of the Bible.
Jesus said that his true disciples could expect the same kind of 'opposition' spread by the complainers and fault finders that he and his first century disciples encountered. (John 15:18-21)
History repeats...do you know why?
There are a lot of ex-JW's who behave just like a lot of the Israelites did in the wilderness after their delivery from slavery in Egypt. All they did was whine about the negatives, because that is all they focused on.....but they failed to appreciate the positives....for 40 years they received a perfect food, clean uncontaminated water, their clothing and footwear didn't wear out and they were led by God throughout their entire sojourn. They were in that predicament because of their own unfaithlfulness, yet God still provided for them. Why? Because of the faithful ones among them.
Do we expect our brothers to be perfect? Not unless we are.
Funny how the finger pointers can never answer the questions put to them about their own practice of Christianity. Who are their brothers? Other sad and sorry defectors?
The apostle Peter's words ring true today, just as they did back then....when some stumbled at Jesus' words....
"Because of this, many of his disciples went off to the things behind and would no longer walk with him. 67 So Jesus said to the Twelve: “You do not want to go also, do you?” Simon Peter answered him: “Lord, whom shall we go away to? You have sayings of everlasting life." (John 6:66-69)
I am very happy to put up with the faults of my brothers because God does. Jesus told us to do what he did......and understand that perfection is something for the new world. You won't find it in this system of things. He put up with the faults of his apostles and they were going to heaven!
Haters are gonna hate....they don't need much provocation. God does the best with what he has in this system of things....so do we. Realistically Christianity is what makes ordinary people carry out an extraordinary work.....one that cannot be done without God's spirit. (Matthew 24:14; Matthew 28:19-20) That extraordinary work is coming to its completion and when the judgment time comes, as we believe it must, there will be the faithful "few" still standing, when all the rest have given in to the world that is "passing away". (1 John 2:15-17) Any who are not living up to the standards Jesus set will be dealt with by him.
"Just like the days of Noah", Jesus said.....no one believed him either. (Matthew 24:37-39) There is only one "ark".
Time will tell I guess....won't it?