'Do no harm' is kind of vague - hell is paved with good intentions.
Is it? I find that I virtually never cause harm to others or myself.
Read Ecclesiastes and Proverbs for some balance. These books aren't about mass killings but rather, wisdom.
I found little wisdom there, and got none from that source even though I read the Bible cover-to-cover three times between ages 18 and 21, but we may be using different definitions of wisdom, which for me, is knowledge that helps one find or approximate his or her best and most satisfying life.
Do we legalize marijuana because it has some 'theraputic' properties???
No, we legalize it because there is no good reason it should be illegal, and it improves many lives.
Do we allow for easy, no-fault divorce because it's an easy way out ???
No, we allow for it because it is a constructive option for many, who discover that they've made a mistake. It's like vomiting compared to the nausea preceding it. Nobody wants to vomit, but it's often the most direct path to the nausea ending, and when nauseated, the vomiting is welcome if it corrects the problem.
So we 'tolerate' gambling, adultery, living together, pornography, violence as entertainment, recreational drugs because these are 'no harm' ?????
Yes, we legalize all of that (I'm assuming that by violence as entertainment, you are talking about violent movies and videogames, not actual street violence).
I sense an attitude from you that you would like to impose your morals on others because you believe that they are from God and therefore represent an optimal moral system. Also, that you are American (as I am). Is that correct?
I'm a humanist, and don't think that at all. I don't mind if others gamble or take potentially lethal drugs as much as I mind those options being forbidden to protect the people lacking judgment and self-control, or to impose a religious moral agenda on them.
As a humanist, I believe in empowering people to find their best life through education and social and economic opportunity. Toward that end, I say give people the maximum number of options consistent with living peacefully in a tolerant society and let them pursue happiness as they understand it (this brings us back to wisdom, or how one understands happiness is found and preserved). Let them live together and have any kind of consensual adult sex and living arrangement they like. Smoke pot and take mushrooms if you like. Gamble if you like. How long ago would people have said that they should be forced to go to church as well, or remain in loveless marriages? Based on your earlier words, I assume that you disagree, but today, the church is close to forcing them to have unwanted children, and is threatening to tell them who they cannot love or what gender they must live as. That's not how I want to live, even though none of that affects me personally.
I suggest the 'narrow mindedness' of simpler and more traditional societies has some merit.
I agree, but humanists don't want to force than on people. My wife and I left the States 13 years ago for Mexico, and that is what we found here - a simpler, happier, more traditional and less dysfunctional culture. And, with retirement to a village on a lake in the mountains, we downsized and simplified our lives as well. A tank of gas lasts us over four months now, since what isn't within walking distance is only a short drive away.