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Prejudice against atheism

GadFly

Active Member
Mball, I have upgraded my opinion of you somewhat from your answer to my questions. Your answer was well organized and understandable. I appreciate you taking the time to respond. Alceste your response was also excellent. I agree with you that conflict between atheist and believers come from the fringe elements of both groups. The question I have is how much of the opposition to each side comes from logic and rational thought as opposed to emotions and psychology. For every crazy Christian you identify, a crazy atheist can also be provided. Neither side wins that debate. As I said, I am a conservative in politics and religion but I am also a liberal thinking person. Mball, there is no conflict in my use of liberal as to politics and my use of liberal in terms of how I think or in reference to liberty. To liberty I remain a conservative.

My question for today: as an theist, why do you object to others being religious? Do you see something evil in my being a Christian as I might see several evils in your being an atheist? Go ahead, tell it like it is, I promise not to bite.
 

Alceste

Vagabond
Hi, Gadfly, thanks for the reply. IMO most of us who bother to engage in a debate consider ourselves to be guided by logic and reason (if we admit our position can not be logically proven, there's no point in arguing!) Also, IMO, we are all more influenced by irrational emotions and subconscious motives than we realize, so my answer to this question:

how much of the opposition to each side comes from logic and rational thought as opposed to emotions and psychology.
is: "all of it" and "all of it". Logic and psychology are not in opposition to one another. The way we generate abstract notions is too complex for us to understand. Psychology is your entire mind, conscious and unconscious, and logic is a tool with which we can orient ourselves in relation to each other and discover areas where our abstractions overlap.

My question for today: as an theist, why do you object to others being religious? Do you see something evil in my being a Christian as I might see several evils in your being an atheist? Go ahead, tell it like it is, I promise not to bite.
I don't believe in good and evil, so there is nothing evil in your being a Christian. From a psycho-spiritual point of view I think an overly developed sense of group identity (regardless of the group) often leads to misery and dissatisfaction on all sides. Externally we invite war, hate-crime, genocide, the BNP and such like. Internally we invite alienation, feelings of persecution, and attachment to goals that are impossible to realize.

I don't object to anyone's religiosity, but I do object to any effort to forcefully impose religious values / laws/ customs / teachings on the whole of society. This would include pro-life activism, anti-evolution activism and anti-gay activism, all of which seem to be popular pastimes for Christian extremists these days. It seems some people are not satisfied with simply not having abortions, not believing in evolution, and not being gay.

It seems to me the primary concern of vocal and irritating atheists is to counter Christian activism for the rolling back of civil liberties. Actually, I imagine both sides believe their way of life is being dangerously eroded. :)
 

Magic Man

Reaper of Conversation
My question for today: as an theist, why do you object to others being religious? Do you see something evil in my being a Christian as I might see several evils in your being an atheist? Go ahead, tell it like it is, I promise not to bite.

I don't object to others being religious. I object to anyone who takes their religion to the point of trying to force it on others. That's the difference. To me, there's nothing inherently wrong with being Christian, or any other religion for that matter. When that starts to negatively affect others, though, it becomes a problem. For instance, when I hear stories about parents thinking homosexuality is wrong and a sin because of their religion, and their son or daughter commits suicide because the parents tried to "help them overcome their disease" instead of supporting them for being who they truly are, then I have a problem with them being religious.

There are atheists who do bad things, too, but the difference is that it's not because of their atheism. When an atheist, for instance, is a bad parent, it's not because they lack morals because they lack religion. It's simply because they are bad parents.
 

3.14

Well-Known Member
Thinking about this earlier it occured to me that many of my friends and the people I admire are atheists and are just as (if not often more) open and receptive to the profound than religious people I'm close to. Despite this I have a prejudice concerning atheism: I associate it with over-emphasis on rational thought, diminishing the importance of other aspects of human experience. This isn't correct is it?

its that occam's razor creates emo's
 

GadFly

Active Member
MBall and Alceste you did a good job of explaining what you do not like about religious people. For that matter, I think religious people don't like the same things about religious people either. The same can be said of atheist or any group that holds special ideas and beliefs in extreme conviction. I think what you complain about is what we typically call hardheadedness. That seems to be Mball's main complaint about me. The GadFly is deliberately hardheaded at times. \

Part of my prejudice toward atheist is that the atheist, as it seems to me, has not dealt adequately with the problem of good and evil in order make me feel safe in living in this universe without a God to protect me and be a storehouse of values that would ensure my well being. In other words, to date, the atheist has not provided a moral frame work in which I do not feel alone.

I also think this problem of good and evil hangs on the fringes of your minds as a problem. I do not say that the religious person has necessarily dealt with this problem any better than the atheist. It might just be a problem for everybody. But in your explanations I receive the impression that you do not philosophically believe in good or evil. If that is not your position, please feel free to correct me as I do not wish to put words in your mouth. Yet, if this be the case, you nevertheless frame you criticisms of religious people in terms of good and evil. Mball, you object to atheist who "do bad things" and "bad parents" whether they be atheist or religious. And Alceste you come strait forward and say:"I don't believe in good and evil," after which you explain what is evil about religious zealots(my word).

I am not trying to pen you down here but would like for you to clarify any semantical use of the concepts of good and evil in the cases described above. I realize it would be difficult to discuss anything without a reference to some type of favorable or unfavorable stance on any subject. What I think to ask is whether there is a source of authority for your everyday use of the concept of knowledge of good and evil? To make it a little more clear, I suspecion your answerer will be framed in reference to some type of humanism.
GadFly
 

Alceste

Vagabond
Hi Gadfly, I said only that they make me uncomfortable. I would think they are misguided, naive, arrogant perhaps but not "evil". Misguided because Christ himself said "love your neighbour" and I don't think the behavior of many evangelical activists is loving. They love their god, their faith and their church, perhaps, but often behave as though they hate everything and everyone else. Naive because any "one true path" doctrine has no understanding that the customs and beliefs of billions of other people in the world may have a great deal of wisdom and insight to offer. Arrogant because it is a one-way message: Do things my way and you will be saved, refuse and you are damned no matter what you believe.

All I can do is repeat that good and evil are not a problem for me and try to reassure you that my lack of concern with religious morality hasn't inspired me to do harm to others. If anything it makes me feel more compassionate and caring toward the whole of humanity and less likely to do harm than I would be if I thought some people were "evil."

I think you hit the nail on the head with your "hardheadedness" comment. I don't like that quality in atheists either!
 

GadFly

Active Member
Hi Gadfly, I said only that they make me uncomfortable. I would think they are misguided, naive, arrogant perhaps but not "evil". Misguided because Christ himself said "love your neighbour" and I don't think the behavior of many evangelical activists is loving. They love their god, their faith and their church, perhaps, but often behave as though they hate everything and everyone else. Naive because any "one true path" doctrine has no understanding that the customs and beliefs of billions of other people in the world may have a great deal of wisdom and insight to offer. Arrogant because it is a one-way message: Do things my way and you will be saved, refuse and you are damned no matter what you believe.

All I can do is repeat that good and evil are not a problem for me and try to reassure you that my lack of concern with religious morality hasn't inspired me to do harm to others. If anything it makes me feel more compassionate and caring toward the whole of humanity and less likely to do harm than I would be if I thought some people were "evil."

I think you hit the nail on the head with your "hardheadedness" comment. I don't like that quality in atheists either!
I have enjoyed the conversation. The point you recognize about hardheadedness is a point that applies to all of us at one time or another. Human behavior is predictable and when confronted with new information the typical response of a person with a philosophical or religious mind is to be skeptical. The first thing Moses said when he first met God on the mountain was to say, "Who are you?" and God said to Moses, "I am what I am." My first response to this statement would have been, had I been Moses, would have been to think God was being evasive and not willing to reveal who God really was. But when you think about it, as an eternal God, he would be so great and powerful that to reveal Himself only a small amount would have blown Moses from here to the end of the universe. Therefore, the answer Moses received from God was very reasonable and appropriate. After all, look what God did with the big bang!

I have heard atheist and non-believers say in their argument against God that if God is all knowing and wise, why does He not just reveal Himself? Well, the above may not be a complete answer to the legitimate question that the atheist ask about the omnipotence of God, but it is a start.

Why do I bring this subject up? It is because you have been offended by the impatience of many Christians and evangelist who have apparently lashed out at you without hearing what you have to say. If God is all knowing and we have the truth, we can afford to listen to you. Consequently, to protect yourself from true bigotry, you stopped listening to all Christians.That is the reason you say this: They love their god, their faith and their church, perhaps, but often behave as though they hate everything and everyone else.That is what I did too at one time, stopped listening. Finally, I thought things through for myself as much as was possible. And here is where I am today. a fundamentalist Christian.

When I read your sincere comments about people who turned you off and hardened your position, I thought, that is not what all Christians are like and indeed most Christians are not like that, but many of the ones you met and knew were like that. When I first came on this forum, I myself acted somewhat like that. But what I really think is that we all should be like God in that He wants to reason with us. You are correct, we have not done good enough job in expressing theist beliefs and you have a right to recent us.

There are reasons, like there was with Moses, why people do not know all there is to know about God. Another mistake in my prejudice towards atheist is I assumed, science atheist have settled on the belief there is no God, this meant atheist had given up the search for truth. That, to me, would be evil but I do not think that is true.

Both you and Mball have given me enough information about the issue of good and evil that I see it is not a great problem for either of you. However, you have not completely satisfied 100% the requirements to philosophically explain the existence of good and evil. For that matter though. I am not sure anybody has accomplished this 100%. So, if I may, let's move on.

It seems to me that atheist would rather not conclude there is a difference between matter and spirit. that there is matter and that there is spirit. Mball, if I have read him correctly, however, does believe these are separate, especially when it comes to mind (spirit) and matter. If you would, please comment on this to provide me with an adequate view of what atheist believe in this regard.
GadFly
 

Alceste

Vagabond
Hi Gadfly, thanks for your thoughtful reply. Sorry if I gave the impression I think ALL Christians are like those I described in the bold bit. I have Christian friends and family who I admire for their effort to lead the kind of life Christ advocated:

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. These two commandments sum up and upon them depend all the Law and the Prophets (Matthew 37-40)

The above along with the bit from Corinthians (Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs yada yada yada) are a topping way to live your life, imo. I admire any person, Christian or atheist, who is able to live by or even attempt to live by these principals.

I haven't had personal tangles with the sort of Christians I was complaining about because I'm from Canada. We don't have controversy regarding gay marriage (legal), evolution (accepted) or abortion (legal) where I come from, or in the UK, where I'm living now, so I have no personal gripe. My concern is on more because of America's global influence, and the impression I have that the angry and oppressive type of Christians I described have a lot of power there, and without them Cheney and Bush could not have come into power.

Regarding matter and spirit, the concept is a Cartesian model I don't agree with. I don't see the world in this way myself, so I can't lock onto a starting point for discussion. :) I can say with reasonable certainty that matter does not exist because science has revealed that every solid-seeming thing in the cosmos is comprised almost entirely of vast empty spaces held together by some force I don't think anyone yet understands. Perhaps it is "spirit" that creates the illusion of matter by infusing the vast empty space with awareness and self-organization, but I don't know. It has to be something though, so spirit is as good a name as any.

Defining spirit as I do, I can easily come to the conclusion matter IS spirit, and thus do away with the dualistic musings of Descartes, Plato and Aristotle (who can be forgiven for their foibles because at the time they were alive the vast nothingness of which we are composed had not yet been revealed.)

Anyway, I certainly wouldn't describe myself as a materialist, although I am prone to conveniently forget all of the above whenever I stub my toe.
 
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