Excuse my extenuated answer, what if the person dose not love them back which means when they talk to you they provoke you because your not interested what they are saying? what then is the solution? My answer I have neighbours who antagonize and provoke me by accusing me of being a homosexual which they know I consider an insult , the reasons are quite simple, I have a beautiful woman who many people from her neighbouring country don’t want me to be with, the only way they can get to me is provoke me to the point of snapping, really horrible people , if they are Christian which they claim to be then I would hate to meet their Satanists, having a long history and trying to keep my nose clean is not easy, their just looking for an easy way to make a quick £.... too, the solution is quite simple 1, they go back to their home land with their antagonizing and provoking children, leaving the civil and nice immigrants here 2 , use their head and mind their own business since they are effectively totally strangers to me and finally 3, I move away either way to a house that is surrounded by wood lands so far from the local community that I have so shop monthly and it would take a 45 drive and 1 & a half hours walk on an nameless path way of an oddly named lane to even begin to find where I live which is my plan and the best plan to date which is why I moved to this god forsaken street in the first place to work and move and marry, the best way I don't provoke.