I really can't understand what it means that something simply becomes.
There's a few different ways to think about this. When considering these, please bear in mind I write in paragraphs for a reason, and taking a single sentence out of context (which it felt like you might have been doing earlier) is probably going to misread what I'm intending to convey with these ideas.
On one level, this is ironically part of the point. There are limits to human experiences and human understanding. Personally, when I run into something that I have trouble understanding, my response isn't to write it off as impossible but to recognize that as symptomatic of my own limitations. On this topic in particular, I'm aware that humans are wired to think in terms of causality. That's going to bias our thought processes to seek causality and find even where there is none. We even have words to describe acausal phenomena - "coincidence." If you want to try and think outside of the causality box - what it means for something to "simply become" - think about phenomena you write off as coincidence as a starting point. The visceral experience of the now, in many respects, transcends causality and simply is. Pardon if this is getting a bit on the mystical wiggity-woo end of things, but I'm not sure how else to put it. If you've ever done any Buddhist-style mindfulness meditations you may have some context for what I'm trying to get at.
On another level, while I certainly perceive things in terms of causality as much as the next human, I've an extensive background in hard science to the point I'm keenly aware of how much causality is oversimplified. My brain twitches inside whenever I hear someone say "a cause" as if such things are ever singular or straightforward. When you study ecology, it's a study of relationships among dozens upon dozens of different variables. You learn to see how all things are interdependent. To put things in another way, you learn to see that everything is both causal and effectual at the same time. As the line gets blurred between cause and effect, you end up seeing cycles, exchanges of energy, and connectedness. Suddenly talking about just "causes" (and especially "cause" singular) stops making a lot of sense to you. It's at odds with how you see the world as you see how this causes that, and that feeds back into this, this here circles around back to that, and on and on.
Don't know if this clarifies or not. Also, I wrote this post yesterday and must have forgotten to post it, so... there's that.