Truth_Faith13
Well-Known Member
I've never been to England, but I attend an Episcopal Church. Our congregation is smallish but we have a ton of families and kids, so there is a lot going on. I think you've made a good choice to go to a "family friendly" one.
Our church is quite welcoming, but it can happen that new people come and are not noticed right away, especially if there is a lot going on (like now during Advent). I try to notice new people myself and introduce myself to them, make them feel welcome. This sometimes means I embarrass myself by asking long-time members if they recently moved to the area.
Usually after the service people kind of line up and shake the priest's hand as they go out. If you see that happening I'd say go for it and join in the line. It's a good place to talk to the people in line next to you and also let the priest know you were there, that you are newly visiting the church, etc..
As for the service itself, it will probably be a lot like a Catholic Mass. I've also been to Methodist services one or twice, and they also seem to follow a similar format except that the Eucharist is not always done.
You've been baptized so you can take the Eucharist if you want. Just hold your hands up for the bread. If you want just a blessing you can go up to the altar and just cross your ams. If you don't want to go up feel free to just stay in your seat without worry.
Also, in our church the children (up to third grade) can choose to go to a children's service where the same Gospel reading is done but then there is discussion & activity aimed at them, so they don't have to sit through the longer readings and sermons. Parents can choose to go with their kids to the Children's Chapel. All return before the second part of the serivce when the Eucharist is done.
I hope you have a good experience!
Cheers,
Laurie
Thanks Laurie! I will let everyone know how it goes. I think I was about 12 the last time I went to a Catholic mass so I really cant remember anything. When I was little I just used to go up for the blessings - I may just observe more for my first time, get a feel for things.