illykitty
RF's pet cat
It's amazing how some people can't answer a simple question without being judgemental... Anyway!
Well, in some cases compromises can be done, a middle ground. In others, well, have to decide which is more important... A spouse or spiritual growth. It's such a hard decision because spiritual growth can be as important as growing in a personality level or job or anything else. It's part of who you are and it's not pleasant, to say the least, to hit a brick wall when you feel you can do so much more!
I don't have anything to say except for trying to communicate (if the partner doesn't shut down). Say why it's so important and listen to them too, expressing why it bothers them.
It might help a little to have both sides of the coin but I get why it's so difficult. Unfortunately it's not something I've figured out yet.
Well, in some cases compromises can be done, a middle ground. In others, well, have to decide which is more important... A spouse or spiritual growth. It's such a hard decision because spiritual growth can be as important as growing in a personality level or job or anything else. It's part of who you are and it's not pleasant, to say the least, to hit a brick wall when you feel you can do so much more!
I don't have anything to say except for trying to communicate (if the partner doesn't shut down). Say why it's so important and listen to them too, expressing why it bothers them.
It might help a little to have both sides of the coin but I get why it's so difficult. Unfortunately it's not something I've figured out yet.