To me, a hypocritical respect is thinking "I won't harm you here and now because of your religion, because that would bring me problems... but you deserve to be harmed later, at a place called hell, by a person known as God, because you don't believe the doctrines I believe"
That is indeed a hypocritical form of respect. To respect a person (in this context) is to have a high regard or consideration for them. Naturally, such regard or consideration entails benevolent feelings about that person. Therefore, thinking, ‘This person deserves to suffer everlastingly for having a different religion’ is a form of thinking that is incompatible with fully respecting the person. Full respect, on the other hand, is consistent.
True respect is thinking "I won't harm you, because I am convinced that no one should do harm to you because of your religion, now or in the future, here or anywhere".
I agree.
How do you think that the doctrine of eternal hell for people from other religions interferes with Interfaith dialogue or daily interactions with people from all faiths?
I have co-workers who are Christians. So far, none of them have ‘warned’ me about damnation nor have any of them mistreated me in a way to demonstrate that I am a ‘heathen’ or whatever. On the surface, there are no interferences based on religious beliefs in our interactions. When it comes to what is in their minds, I really don’t know. If they believe that I should be damned, it doesn’t offend me the slightest. At the same time, I am sorry if that sort of belief causes them any mental/emotional suffering.
So I keep thinking: How can you know that someone really respects you, if he/she believes you deserve to burn in hell because of your religion?
How to cooperate in common projects at work, at colleage, at business? How to build a strong, peaceful community where everyone feels valued?
I don’t know. Any measures for that would be totalitarian in nature.
Perhaps such a common citizen did not inflict any direct harm and treated them as he would treat any other person… but approved that others (their supreme leaders) sent them to forced labor camps.
Was this true respect?
A civilian member of the Nazi party acting benevolently toward a Jew yet approving of the same Jew being sent to forced labor for being a Jew is hypocritical. Being hypocritical, that supporter does not truly respect the Jewish fellow. To demonstrate full respect, that person would leave the party and speak against Antisemitism.
Perhaps most Evangelical fundamentalists who claim to believe that Jews or Muslims will burn in hell for ever DO NOT actually believe those things in their hearts. What do you think?
I suspect that some of them—and many Christians in general—do not like that belief. Nonetheless, they subscribe to it because it is taught by the Church and they want to be consistent in their faith.
Personally, I like how Eastern Orthodox theologians interpret the everlasting fire. From the divine perspective, it is not a punishment nor anything to do with justice. Rather, God is the ‘fire’ and the ‘heat’ is his love. The ‘torment’ felt by the sinners is psychological. If Western Christians were to adopt this understanding of the everlasting fire, they might go from thinking, ‘This person deserves to be tormented for having a lack of belief’ to, ‘This person will ultimately experience God’s presence and love but they won’t like any of it.’