You have repeatedly admonished masturbation. That is a sexual hang up.
Oh ok - I think I understand what you mean by "sexual hang up" now.
The fact that I have a moral code that includes standards regarding my sexual exploits means that I have a "sexual hang up".
My "sexual hang up" is having self-control and encouraging others to have some as well.
And especially my desire for everyone to have meaningful and fulfilling sexual relationships with long-long partners - that really "hangs me up".
We can avoid a lot of misery and heartache if the world developed more "sexual hang ups" - in my opinion.
I don't think anyone mistakes for sex with a partner.
You originally claimed that masturbation was sex.
But it's still a form of sex.
You later said that people masturbate before having sex.
You can't have it both ways.
Because that's generally when that definition starts to apply.
No - it doesn't. That's an "extreme" interpretation of the word extreme. Get it?
There is a reason we have the terms "extremist" and "violent extremist" - because they are not the same thing.
You can hold an extreme viewpoint without being a psycho.
Yes, extremism is wrong because it's rooted in dogma.
You have now proven that you don't know what either of those words mean.
Really? You really believe that? I gotta admit - I'm surprised.
It is unusual to be called extreme to be called extreme for not wanting kids.
I believe you only think this because you are interpreting the word "extreme" differently than I - and dictionaries do.
No, it just means I have a better grasp of what extremists ideology actually means.
Nope - I don't think so. You are trying to equate the word "extreme" with "radical", "fanatical" and "violent extremism".
Hint: If you need to put "violent" in front of a word - it means that the original word is not associated with violence.
And don't forget that you are the one who came to me - challenging my opinion - and you are unwilling to accept that I can have an opinion on the matter - so I ain't the wanker - eh mate?
And no, I don't respect people in real life who would bug me about it. This is a discussion forum. That does make things different.
I would think that that anyone who bugged you about this in real life would be really weird.
Yet - that is not the same as someone thinking that your view on having children was weird or extreme.
You claimed that no one thought so - but you can't read their minds - so you cannot know either way.
Still - if they pestered you about it - that would be weird.
People tend to do that when they live somewhere.
No - I have lots of family who have visited parts of Europe for weeks - none came back with accents.
My partner has a cousin who married a Frenchman and moved to France years ago - she does not have a French accent.
I had a cousin who moved to Alabama decades ago - his children have Southern accents - but he does not.
True - he used Southern sayings and stuff - but no accent.
It's weird and annoying to think a normal part of being human is weird and being human.
I don't believe it is normal. Are you half-admitting that you are faking the Brit-speech?
"Appropriate their culture?"
This might be fun for me.
Honestly - that would be super fun. I like Italian accents and Japanese culture.
It's not just poverty here. It's largely farm run off that has made the water toxic, and it's supporting water-demading crops in a land that has been over farmed and parched and under severe draught.
All of those problems could be solved through innovation - ergo - the need for more people.
Not only that - but taking notes from ancient cultures - rotating those fields with some livestock for a couple years - can really make a difference.
We need more people making and building more things.
Since when are people supposed to be grateful for abuse?
A person is a sum of many parts. No one is one-dimensional.
Even if there was abuse - your life was made and maintained by these people.
You don't have to love them - but you should at least be grateful to them.
My mother took the higher road and forgave her mother a few years before she passed.
It was a relief for both of them. I would hate for you to miss your chance.
No, I mean people like my brother or best friend, those I would do just about anything for.
You won't grow as a person if you can only forgive and help those who forgive and help you. Only love those who love you.
That is my opinion.
That doesn't include those who have hurt me.
People tend to hurt other because they themselves have been hurt.
Maybe you can help them heal - which would in turn heal yourself.
More sexual hangups on your part.
I'll wear it as a badge of honor.
I don't sexually abuse myself.
I believe that if you masturbate - you are abusing yourself.