Fallen Prophet
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Yet - correct me if I'm wrong - you claim to "not appreciate this disposable culture of instant gratification".I'm not a prude and I don't have sexual hangups so it's not inconsistent.
How can you make this claim while supporting the practice of masturbation - which is the poster child "instant gratification" of a "disposable culture"?
You claim to hate a culture that you at the same time seem to revel in - it's totally inconsistent.
The human race does not share any single tradition. Traditions are formed by culture and every culture is different.Humans traditionally don't live in arrangements that end with it being husband and wife and no one else.
In a culture based on freedom - anyone's living arrangements are decided by themselves - not you.
You are free to believe that the practice is "sick" just like I believe that masturbation is unhealthy - but neither of us can prove anything.
An "extreme" is the point furthest from the center - the current average population growth for every household in the U.S. is 1.7 (down from 2.5).It's really not. You just have a bizarrely low threshold for extreme.
That means that zero to infinite children are the extremes. And there is nothing wrong with either - if you are prepared for the consequences.
It's very simple.
Are you claiming that you could read my mind if we were face-to-face?It's called having face to face conversations with people rather than making assumptions about people on the internet.
Even if we were face-to-face - I would claim that your desire to never have children was weird to me and I would encourage you to give the matter more thought.
I did that with my friends who shared a similar opinion.
It is - by definition.It's really not.
Great. As long as you set your priorities straight - water filters over iPhones - you will have all the drinking water you want.I live in a county that has potable water stations and a thriving home water filtration business because the tap water widely isn't safe to drink.
Of course you do - else why did you interpret my claim that your "no children" policy was extreme as an attack upon you?I don't.
There is nothing wrong with being on the extreme end of an issue. The word "extreme" does not have any negative connotation.
Which is why we have terms like "radical" and "violent extremists" to separate these crazy fanatics from others that may agree with them - but aren't crazy.
For example - I have an extreme view on abortion - that it is murder - but I'm not about to bomb any abortion clinic - those would be done by "radicals" or "violent extremists".
Don't let the media do your thinking for you.
Obviously you shouldn't appreciate the abuse - but no person or relationship is one-dimensional.However it's a fact my mom is abusive and that's nothing to be appreciated.
My mother grew up in a very abusive household - and she is one of the sweetest women on Earth.
She ended up taking care of her mother - the prime source of her abuse - when dementia set in up until she died.
You should read her memoir about it. It's called "Paper Dolls". You can find it on Amazon.
I think your behavior has given me enough - but I admit I don't care too much about it anymore.You need to quit looking at things through assumptions.
God bless.