Self-love isn’t about self-indulgence; it’s about
taking care of yourself.
A person who loves themselves wants to become the best they can be, they want to explore themselves, practice
inner work, do some
soul-searching, work on their flaws, heal their traumas, and
find inner peace.
How is this a bad thing?
We are taught to believe that being self-seeking will jeopardize society as a whole – regardless of what you actually do – so it is condemned indiscriminately.
This attitude is evident when we describe the behavior of a person who succeeds at the expense of other’s well-being with words like ‘selfish.’ But this isn’t selfish,
it’s foolish and idiotic!
A person with mindful self-love is aware that they’re actually harming themselves when they harm others. Why? Because they understand that if they hurt others, they will suffer the negative consequences in the long term, which will make life much more difficult for them. They realize that causing suffering to others is actually
self-destructive, which is the complete opposite of self-love.
(On a side note, is there any such thing as Altruism,
really? The actual act of helping other people does benefit us: it makes
us feel good. Therefore, Altruism itself can also be thought of as a “selfish” act.)
If you truly love yourself, you want to take care of yourself. It’s only self-hating egotistical people that harm themselves physically or mentally.
Read loads more here -
Self-Love: 23 Ways to Become a Doctor of the Soul
All the best!