I'm completely serious. The New Atheist movement actively encourages people to call religious people names, to mock them and make fun of them. Dawkins, one of its four horsemen, wanted atheists to be called 'brights' in opposition to religious people, who the movement perceives as dumb, sheeplike and delusional at worst. There are many videos of him saying such things. They mostly rely on the narrative that all religion is bad, should be wiped out and that materialism is the only acceptable view. You only have to read some posts on here where religious people are routinely described as living in a fantasy land, believing in fairy tales, being intellectually inferior, the list goes on. These are mostly slurs used against religious people by New Atheists who perpetuate that religion is evil.
Speaking of battles, there is a cultural war being waged between the church and the rest of American society (I understand that this battle has largely played out in European democracies). You make it sound like that is an unprovoked assault rather than a reaction in kind.
The church has a long history of demonizing and marginalizing atheists. Not long ago, they seen as morally unfit to adopt, coach, teach, or serve on juries, and they are still seen as unfit for public office, or many times, even to give an invocation before a government meeting.
This has been going on for millennia. It was worse in the past. Atheists have long been described as evil - as god haters.There is nothing more damning that can be said about a person in the eyes of a god lover.
Prominent theists rarely fail to take the opportunity to blame any catastrophe on atheists (or liberals, or feminists, or LGBT, or legal abortion). America, they say, has been swirling down the bowl ever sine the evil Madalyn O'Hair succeeded in removing forced prayer from public schools.
And there is a war being waged on the state-church wall right now. Given the chance, the church will become represented by a majority on the Supreme Court, and then begin to contract a few freedoms that many people consider important.
So exactly what are you expecting back from the atheists? Gratitude? Affection? Support? Praise? Even now, in America, the Christians appear indifferent to what non-Christians want. For them, freedom of religion in America now means the right to impose one's Christian bigotry on others.
Atheists finally have a voice and a platform. They're letting the theists know how they feel about the past, and attempting to push them back - out of their lives. Once that happens, the struggle will likely end. Humanists have no other interest in the church.
Yes, I know that not every Christian is like that, but those are the ones that secularists have to fend off, and therefore they are the face of the church and the focus of the secularist's attention for now.