See, it's stuff like this that throws me of. I don't know if you are speaking literally or figuratively.
Figuratively, I agree.
Literally, I do not.
It's both actually. Not to make this too obtuse here, which is easy to do, every way we have to talk about these things are not literal. They're all figurative. To have a mind/body split is a model of the different domains, dividing the mental and biological domains. But these domains are not actual separate things. That is the filter of a Cartesian dualism that we look at these things through, and then the mind plays a little trick on everyone who uses language, it sees that this is a real separation. It's all figurative.
In Buddhism for instance, and many other cultures outside the West, this division does not exist. They refer to as bodymind. It all interconnects and interrelates. And that particular view of it to me, fits the highly complex and integrated relationships between these basic domains much better that this Western dualism. One needs to only engage in some good qigong mediation practices to begin to understand this. I practice taijijuan, which is making me even more acutely aware of this on a "bodymind" level, beyond just theoretical models of the mind, or assumptions of language which affect the reasoning of the mind.
So with that in mind....
Yes, your mindset can influence the events in your life. But it's a social effect. Your mindset influences your behaviour and body language . That in turn determines who people perceive you ("he always looks angry", "he's got a great vibe!",...). These are literally perceptions of your physical presence and composure.
Sure. Yes. What begins in the mind reaches out through thought into the manifest world through the body, as well as other modes of manifestations beyond body language. There are things we are perceptively aware of on an unconscious level that we haven't begun to understand yet. Life is quite Mysterious indeed. The key is to try to not let our basic models of "the way things are" interfere with the way things really are.
Not that that means go off half-cocked into la-la happy New Age fantasy land. There has to be some actual grounding at some level or another. The key is though to understand that all of it, include science as a language, is a metaphor for Reality. They not Reality itself, like the Cartesian Dualism split of mind and body. In Reality, nothing is separate.
This is "aura". It's not something magical or spiritual or whatever that "surrounds" you. It's rather subtleties in your facial expression, composure, body language, etc... Our social brains pick up on those signals and we then create an image of you and label it. "looks trust worthy" or "looks gentle" or "stay away from him - bad vibes" etc.
Certainly all of this is true. We have mirror neurons where we will "try on" the other person's face though subtly mimicking it in order to compute what sort of thought energy is behind that in the other person. Yes, our brain is a reading machine. I'd just caution reducing it to that and that alone. I think there is more to the world than what our current set of eyes we are using can see. Science is not the end of understanding, but a tool to further exploration and understanding. Reason is not the only set of eyes we see with.
In that, figurative, sense - I agree. Your mindset will influence your "manifestation" and how you are socially perceived. But it's not going to influence weather patterns. And it's not something "mysterious" or "mystical" or what-have-you. It's just all physical cause and effect.
I think another problem with that lens of the West is that they view anything they haven't yet "proven" to be magical, or supernatural. The things I am talking about are very much part of the natural world. I don't see that there is a division to be made in reality, only in how we frame the world and where we like to draw the line to keep us from going insane.
We like the think in abstract / spiritual terms about such things and cultures around the world have come up with such labels for it: chakra's, ki, aura, spirit, soul,... But really, it's just external physical manifestation / expression of your emotional state of mind, in the form of body language.
These are natural systems. They are languages, just as our sciences have their languages. One can interpret both as magical. That reflects the person understanding them, and not the systems themselves. They are metaphors for real, explored experiences. And in many cases, especially when we are talking the East, these "maps" of the interiors are just that. Western science does not map out interior landscapes like the mind, until you get over to those like Freud and Jung and modern psychology.
A materialist view of reality is not a complete picture, by any means. The interior landscape interfaces with the exterior physical world in a bidirectional way. It's not one over the other. But both we need to explore and understand. The East in their systems of energy centers, for instance, is not just magical thinking at all, but based on practices of ages of those engaged in looking within. They are very sophisticated maps of human consciousness.
Just because some California New Age person fluffs them all up like a marshmallow at a campfire and goes, "Oooh, my Chakras need alignment. Let me put my crystal on my heart center... Om.....", does not mean they are not rational systems. Do they ruin Quantum Physics for you too?
In either case, I don't think really we can disagree that thoughts do create reality. And neither of imagine it "kwafs" into existence some from "thought to matter", without some form of medium, or agency.