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Scripture discourages Marriage

Spiderman

Veteran Member
1 Corinthians 7
One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

If you don't feel called to marriage, it could be that your Diety is calling you to himself/herself. :)
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Pretty much, yeah. Celibacy is praised above marriage in St. Paul's writings. But there's nothing wrong with marriage. It's just different vocations.
 

Deeje

Avid Bible Student
Premium Member
God instituted marriage so that families could populate the earth. There is nothing wrong with being married.

Paul may even have been married at one time. The apostle Peter certainly was.

What Paul recommended in his role as a traveling minister, was singleness with a purpose....to be undistracted in that service, but if one meets a compatible mate with whom to serve God together, then marriage was not forbidden.

You need to read the whole chapter of 1 Corinthians ch 7. He covers quite a bit of subject matter concerning marriage...and he makes clear what is his personal recommendation and what came from Jesus.
 

MJFlores

Well-Known Member
Did you know that Apostle Peter was married?

Matthew 8:14 Douay-Rheims 1899 American Edition (DRA)

And when Jesus was come into Peter's house, he saw his wife's mother lying, and sick of a fever:

And did you know that celibacy was not practiced in the 1st century church? Gregorian Reform

Besides simony and canonical elections, the most important issue for opponents and supporters of Gregorian Reform was clerical celibacy. Marriage and concubinage among the lower ranks of the clergy were customary in much of the Western church, although already forbidden by the Council of Nicaea in ad 325. The reform of the 11th century was determined to eliminate this behaviour at all costs. Following the election of Pope Leo IX early in 1049, the papacy issued decree after decree that required priests to give up their wives, barred the sons of priests from the priesthood except under certain conditions, and declared the women sexually involved with priests “unfree.”

1 Timothy 3:8-13 Douay-Rheims 1899 American Edition (DRA)

Deacons in like manner chaste, not double tongued, not given to much wine, not greedy of filthy lucre:
Holding the mystery of faith in a pure conscience.
And let these also first be proved: and so let them minister, having no crime.
The women in like manner chaste, not slanderers, but sober, faithful in all things.
Let deacons be the husbands of one wife: who rule well their children, and their own houses.
For they that have ministered well, shall purchase to themselves a good degree, and much confidence in the faith which is in Christ Jesus.

I'm sure you folks read that.

1 Timothy 3:2-5 Douay-Rheims 1899 American Edition (DRA)

It behoveth therefore a bishop to be blameless, the husband of one wife, sober, prudent, of good behaviour, chaste, given to hospitality, a teacher,
Not given to wine, no striker, but modest, not quarrelsome, not covetous, but
One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all chastity.
But if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?

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Ingledsva

HEATHEN ALASKAN
1 Corinthians 7
One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

If you don't feel called to marriage, it could be that your Diety is calling you to himself/herself. :)

And Adam and Eve weren't married, - just having sex and popping out babies.

Apparently all you have to do is find the one meant for you, and just start having sex.

No one "married" for the majority of human history.

"Marriage" started off as just two people deciding to set up house, followed later by adding a small gathering to show friends and family that you made a choice of mate, and in patriarchal/slave society, by handing over a daughter with some terms, perhaps some money changing hands, etc.

It is ridiculous that the religions of Abraham claim marriage is from their God, and thus they can dictate the definition.

All species of animals procreate.

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Riders

Well-Known Member
1 Corinthians 7
One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

If you don't feel called to marriage, it could be that your Diety is calling you to himself/herself. :)


Nice so if the single woman is a virgin she can be holy and serve God. That counts me out sorely,forget about serving the Christian God eh? I'm single.
 

MHz

Member
I hear the RCC is looking for ways to allow Priests to marry. Really?? Bit late I'd say.
I wonder how may more centuries will pass before any Church admits the Beloved Disciple (of John the Baptist) was a woman??
 

jcforever

Member
1 Corinthians 7
One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

If you don't feel called to marriage, it could be that your Diety is calling you to himself/herself. :)

There's nothing to be concerned about. If God calls you to be his servant, he will make sure you become a eunuch so that you do not desire any sexual relations with another human being. When he makes you leave your wife and family to preach the gospel, you won't have any choice but to do his will.
 

meghanwaterlillies

Well-Known Member
1 Corinthians 7
One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

If you don't feel called to marriage, it could be that your Diety is calling you to himself/herself. :)
I believe that is one the most false statements of the bible and something covered up by religion via an old worship of an angel. You look in the mirror or you look to the sky something that animals or products do not do. Unfortunately we really don't know if paul found it or not.
 

12jtartar

Active Member
Premium Member
Throughout the 7th chapter of 1Corinthians Paul writes much about marriage. He is not really trying to discourage anyone from getting married, but he is trying to make people see that, for putting the most time trying to spread Christianity, it is much easier if single, for marriage brings many worries and responsibilities with it. Paul is just telling everyone that, if you can, it would be better to remain as he was, but if you cannot control your desires, marry, you do not sin!!
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
I hear the RCC is looking for ways to allow Priests to marry. Really?? Bit late I'd say.
Eastern Rite churches in communion with Rome already allow priests to marry.

The ban on priestly marriage is a discipline, not doctrine, and is considered subject to change.
 

Kelly of the Phoenix

Well-Known Member
Throughout the 7th chapter of 1Corinthians Paul writes much about marriage. He is not really trying to discourage anyone from getting married, but he is trying to make people see that, for putting the most time trying to spread Christianity, it is much easier if single, for marriage brings many worries and responsibilities with it. Paul is just telling everyone that, if you can, it would be better to remain as he was, but if you cannot control your desires, marry, you do not sin!!
But how can single people advertise the sacredness of matrimony with a straight face?
 

Athena Plato

"Who do you say I am?"
1 Corinthians 7
One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit; but one who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit; not to put a restraint upon you, but to promote what is appropriate and to secure undistracted devotion to the Lord.

If you don't feel called to marriage, it could be that your Diety is calling you to himself/herself. :)

There are God's legal doctrines of marriage and dowries. The importance of abiding and respecting these laws and how God's servants managed them. If there was a dispute between a husband or wife, or their families; they could resolve it, by asking one of God's servants to help out, as opposed to wasting time in court. But just like now, these laws were not always easy to understand. God's servants (judges) came in handy. They of course were paid for their time, (God would also receive Her portion and be called upon from time to time) but, it was far cheaper and quicker than going to court. These dowries and marriages were the core of faithfulness. Jews were excellent litigators and very good with money. If your partner or their family tried to take advantage of you, God's servants would step in and set them straight. The only other option was corrupt courts and judges who could be bribed. God was a better choice and I am sure very popular.
 

whirlingmerc

Well-Known Member
In the large, no, as a norm scripture calls marriage a grace of life
but in some circumstances, persecution and difficulties one might be better off considering if a life of singleness is better... for that circumstance
 

Skwim

Veteran Member
A bit optimistic of Paul to believe that

"One who is unmarried is concerned about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord;"​

and

"The woman who is unmarried, and the virgin, is concerned about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and spirit;"​

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