All wrong.
You would be amazed at how many mag directors are WOMEN. True!
If they didn't like an ad as produced by an ad firm then they would tell the client, 'No! We can't insert this!' So Women control more than you suggest.
And your analogies are absurd.
Shampoo? SHAMPOOS!!!????? How out of touch that comment was.
How far from the average female mind that was.
If ads execs only got paid on sales, and you was (Not were, Revolting.... WAS
) ... sorry Alceste.... you was an ad exec, you would die of starvation....
Women buy shampoos to clean their hair, make it smell nice, make it look good, make themselves feel clean and confident. Many shampoos have ingredients included so that women don't need conditioners = hair shines and moves differently.
Women buy shampoos because that particular bottle is easier to use, doesn't fall over, has a nice shape.
The ads can show a woman with lovely long flowing hair in a breeze...... puts her somewhere...
I won't continue this to the bottom of the page, but if you could not write about female (and male) perceptions, needs, wants and the features and benefits of a particular brand of shampoo TO THE BOTTOM OF THE PAGE then you don't know what marketing, advertising and selling is all about.
And it pays shareholders' returns, it gives thousands of employees jobs, and fulfills the needs of countless clients and customers. So let's not mess with it too much. Your claims of sexual objectification, in many cases, are simply sexual interest attractors, and the S/O cases that remain could only be dealt with by very careful legislation.