Booko
Deviled Hen
Even if the government were to change the name from "marriage license" to "legal relationship license", everyone would still call it a marriage license, and even though my wedding wasn't in a church or presided over by a monotheistic clergy, I'll still say I am married.
What's so terrible about that?
Our wedding wasn't in a church or presided over by a monotheistic clergy. The thing is, the state recognizes our "legal relationship license" but in other cases it doesn't. Essentially the state is trying to make moral judgments about sexual relationships. That strikes me as rather odd. The state has an interest in ensuring consent of parties is obtained (which rather eliminates children getting married or forced weddings), but what other interest would the state have?
The limitations we have now come straight out of a set of religious traditions, and they do not show any reason why other forms of marriage would be damaging to society. If the state wants to make moral judgements like that, it should have to be upfront about what the damage is and not just blindly follow tradition.