Do you often feel that we spend too much time debating the exact meanings of words that can't help but be interpreted in deeply personal terms anyway?
I'll agree, with the proviso that we shouldn't be spending no time discussing these things.
It's all about the mindset we discuss things in really. People with very dogmatic views, generally but not always coming out of the Abrahamic traditions (well, two of them in particular!) and the atheistic mindsets that have been influenced by them (i.e. much of Western irreligion, which takes much of its mindset from the more rigid forms of Protestantism AFAIK) often don't bring a good attitude to the discussion table, just because they have certain constrictions on their ability to listen to others and engage with them on certain subjects.