voyager 1 is the most distant man made spacecraft we have created, and 45 years later, it has only traveled a fraction of light year.
at the current speed voyager 1 is travelling, it would take some thousands of years to reach one light-year.
to travel to the nearest star, like Proxima Centaurus, which is 4.2 light-year (not that voyager 1 is going in that direction, so I am say hypothetically), it would take thousands of years. But voyager 1 will lose all power to their instruments, by next year or 2.
space travel is simply too impossible to be viable for humans, as we have no technology to build vessel to even reach the light speed. Certainly not to colonise another planet from another star system.
I can go one step further. The fastest probe humans have made is the Parker Solar Probe. It has achieved a speed of .064% of the speed of light. This required a gravity assist from Jupiter. At this speed, if it was directed to the nearest star other than the sun (as opposed to the nearest star--the sun), it would take over 6000 years to get to its destination.
And this probe has nowhere close to the mass that would be required for a colonization of another star system.
Sure, if we could manage fusion technology (um, we've been working at it for several decades and can just barely make break-even), we could increase these speeds a bit *if* we devote the resources to the issue. But we would *still* have to lug the fuel with us for most of the flight and that increases the energy required.
And another aspect that nobody seems to be discussing. We have already put humans on the moon. This was done over 50 years ago. But we haven't been back. Why not?
Ultimately, it is because it isn't economic. We are at the bottom of a gravity well and getting out of that takes a certain amount of energy no matter what. Even if we can make advances with disposable rockets, the price to put a significant number of people on a space station is immense and people will (rightly) question the use of resources. While asteroid mining can help, I will bet that it won't be nearly as profitable as the scifi stories make it out to be.
And that only gets us about our solar system. The distances and times to other stars systems are several orders of magnitude larger with corresponding costs and risks. Meanwhile, the problems on Earth continue.
Maybe I am just pessimistic, but I really doubt we will mange to get to another star system. We certainly won't be able to in a way that maintains communication, let alone a coherent organization. And this isn't going to be an issue just for those from Earth. Any other civilization faces the same distances and the same questions of resources.
So, how likely is it that we will be still 'visible' in another 10,000 years? I am guessing very unlikely. And, I suspect that is the case elsewhere as well. So the chances of *overlap in time* with another species is probably quite low. Even if there is other life out there, the chances of technological life existing at the same time as us doesn't seem to be very high.
So, we don't see other civilizations because they max out at a stage where they aren't visible, just like we will.