This is what others have been discussing. According to the faithful, unbelievers have some kind of defect, usually moral - rebellious, libertine, makes himself God - but if you saw my list above, also intellectual and spiritual.
I made great changes entering Christianity from atheism, and I made great changes returning from Christianity to atheism. I never made any analogous changes again. This has nothing to do with not wanting that religion or any other to be true.
They simply have nothing to offer somebody that has learned to live outside of them, nothing that would draw one back unless he were unhappy in a way that religion could help. I like to use the analogy of an old lover.
Sometimes, you miss them, feel like you made a mistake leaving them, and want what you once had, the present seeming lacking relative to the past. And sometimes you don't have such feelings, you don't miss the pass, and you're happy to have moved on. That's how I view my former relationship with religion.
Incidentally, why doesn't your comment apply to you mutatis mutandis? If the story of Jesus were false, then that would mean great changes in life the believer, because he is vested in Christianity. This is actually more likely the case. I know from experience that it is much easier to move into religion from outside of it than the reverse. And I know how much more willing faith-based thinkers are to reinvent reality to defend a belief than critical thinkers.
This is the learned helplessness that another poster referenced. Humanism contains no such disabling ideas as man needing salvation. It is about the potential in man, developing that potential with education, and providing social and economic opportunity to enable people to pursue happiness as they understand it. From the
Affirmations of Humanism:
- We affirm humanism as a realistic alternative to theologies of despair and ideologies of violence and as a source of rich personal significance and genuine satisfaction in the service to others.
- We believe in optimism rather than pessimism, hope rather than despair, learning in the place of dogma, truth instead of ignorance, joy rather than guilt or sin, tolerance in the place of fear, love instead of hatred, compassion over selfishness, beauty instead of ugliness, and reason rather than blind faith or irrationality.
This is the exact opposite of Christian theology.
American is not the name of your language. Americans speak American English. I have the same issue in Mexico, where the language is called Spanish, not Mexican, and the local variant, Mexican Spanish, is different from Spanish in Spain or Venezuela.