Spanking fascination (read at your own risk)

[Maija]

It sounds sexual to me but I dunno. That's your call, bro.

With the prior asexual signature and the "Am I asexual if..." question, it may be that you're caught up on labels. Is being asexual or not an important part of your identity?

Imo, if you enjoy something and another person enjoys something, have a blast, whatever it is that you want to call it.

It can be hard to shake an identity we've grown accustomed to. It can make us feel special and unique, especially if we have not decided what we will be next or are comfortable with where we are heading.

You may be outgrowing asexuality, is the common answer.

I believe one day I shall lay my hands across the bottom of a truly naughty young lady who deserves it. But from here we digress into fantasy.
I shall sing some of my poetry for my heart beats ever faster.......

"Oh Juliet where are thine' buttocks so I may thusly smacketh thee! For thine brat shan't not speak to thou in sucheth condescending of a tone! For thine naughtiness has earnst thou's merits the abrupt actions of a spanking. Thrice O bewildered girl will thee feel thine hand smacketh thee so ever swiftly!
For you O Juliet knoweth what thou deserveth and shall feel the wrath wrought from my palms as thine fury shall lay waste to ye's buttocks!"

Oh the splendor of spanking!

Total sexuality.

I am sensing some guilt about not being asexual anymore, especially with the "Don't judge me," lines.

No offense, there should be none taken given we are all here to support each other and respectably state opinions.

 

[Sha'irullah]

It can be hard to shake an identity we've grown accustomed to. It can make us feel special and unique, especially if we have not decided what we will be next or are comfortable with where we are heading.

You may be outgrowing asexuality, is the common answer.



Total sexuality.

I am sensing some guilt about not being asexual anymore, especially with the "Don't judge me," lines.

No offense, there should be none taken given we are all here to support each other and respectably state opinions.

It astonishes me this thread comes back up every time I forget about it

I have never heard of any individual "outgrowing asexuality". Keep in mind I have to have an attraction to other people to even remotely break away from asexuality and my lack of attraction only gets stronger each day.

Also the "don't judge me lines
are a common expression I have to display sarcasm and are thus not remotely serious.


So keep in mind that to be a sexual person means an interest in sex and other people within that context. I have neither interest in sex yet alone sex with other people.

To be frank here, I never get physically aroused when within social proximity. I find them that repulsive in person.

 

[Maija]

It astonishes me this thread comes back up every time I forget about it

I have never heard of any individual "outgrowing asexuality". Keep in mind I have to have an attraction to other people to even remotely break away from asexuality and my lack of attraction only gets stronger each day.

Also the "don't judge me lines
are a common expression I have to display sarcasm and are thus not remotely serious.


So keep in mind that to be a sexual person means an interest in sex and other people within that context. I have neither interest in sex yet alone sex with other people.

To be frank here, I never get physically aroused when within social proximity. I find them that repulsive in person.

to be a sexual person you need sexual thoughts not actions. there are many sexual ppl who may not enjoy sex but have thoughts of desiring someone else in some way which may not end up in penetration.

i speak from experience, while not anymore asexual (i was till i was 24), i prefer to go without mostly but im happily married so i keep the peace.

i outgrew mine, therapy for sexual abuse helped me.

what are you getting out of spanking if not arousal?

 

[Sha'irullah]

to be a sexual person you need sexual thoughts not actions. there are many sexual ppl who may not enjoy sex but have thoughts of desiring someone else in some way which may not end up in penetration.

i speak from experience, while not anymore asexual (i was till i was 24), i prefer to go without mostly but im happily married so i keep the peace.

i outgrew mine, therapy for sexual abuse helped me.

what are you getting out of spanking if not arousal?

Your definition of sexuality is heavily misconstrued. Along with your definition of asexuality which I have a strong feeling you are getting genophobia and asexuality confused.
One does not stop being an asexual the same way one does not stop being homosexual. Asexual has no correlation with chastity, celibacy or sexual denial.

Thoughts do not qualify as sexuality the same way that thinking of murdering does not qualify as murder.

I am perhaps the only person who is fascinated with sodomizing the ayatollah while strangling him with his own beard just for giggles.


For the record, what I get out of spanking is my fascination for degrading the female kind . I have actually resolved my issues since I made this posts and figured out I am a chauvinist and proud of it.

I dislike touching, sex, socializing, and I highly dislike social unions (family, friendship or marriage). So what else am I going to do with females?
I am a chauvinist simply because I am bored . It may seem humorous but for me I am dead serious, I have no other entertainment for people unless I am discussing things online where I feel detached enough.

 

[Sha'irullah]

to be a sexual person you need sexual thoughts not actions. there are many sexual ppl who may not enjoy sex but have thoughts of desiring someone else in some way which may not end up in penetration.

i speak from experience, while not anymore asexual (i was till i was 24), i prefer to go without mostly but im happily married so i keep the peace.

i outgrew mine, therapy for sexual abuse helped me.

what are you getting out of spanking if not arousal?

Also, I just realized you are a female. I fixed my glasses and put them on and just found out your gender says female.

I's cracks meself up somes times

 

[Evil]

Perhaps it is a power thing.