*Stepping Back*

[blackout]

I just wanted to tell you all
that I will be taking a few steps
back into mySelf for a while.

Which also means I will be taking
a few steps back FROM some other things
in my life
including RF.

I feel that I have been exercising
bad judgement lately,
posting things that I regret soon after.

Tonight was just the inevitable last straw
of my recent faux pas...
and was in the coming either way.

But it serves to point out a truth
I already knew deep down anyway.

This is not the right season for sharing.

I need to spend time in the quiet.
I need to spend time by mySelf.
I need to fix my life.
I need to spend time healing,
growing, and improving mySelf
on my own...
(and privately, with others of like mind)

This year has been in the top three
hardest years of my life.
It is also up in the top three
most WONDERFUL years of my life.
And THAT is so much so due to RF
and all the people I have come to love here.

I will still check my PM's once or twice a week,
as well as my private personal board.

But I will not be reading or posting on the main forum boards.
I need a good long break. :beach:
and YOU need me to take a good long break as well.:areyoucra
It's in everyone's best interest really. :angel2:

Some of you know where you can find me though. :flirt:

~V~

 

[Darkwater]

The most basic seperation agreement would get your *mundane* in order Vi,get some local legal advice.

Even if there is no free legal aid,a decent lawyer would allow you a half hour free of charge.,,,look for 1st interview free,get all your concerns out.

Great Love,

DW.

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXXXXXX

 

[MysticSang'ha]

Awww....we'll miss you, Vi. It's important that you're happy though.

In case you're ever in need of a Big Squishy Hug, call me.

 

[kai]

I hope your path leads you well,


peace , Kai

 

[Guitar's Cry]

I'll miss seeing your insightful posts.

But I do hope we keep contact outside the forums. I'd hate to lose a wonderful and close friend such as yourself.
:hug:

If you need any help or advice, please contact me.

 

[whereismynotecard]

This is one of the hardest years of my life too. The other one was when I was 11 and I got my period. I think that was the worst year of them all.

Anyway, I hope you feel better, Violet, and I hope you come back to the forums for good soon.

 

[Magic Man]

Good luck, Vi. I hope things work out for you. I'll miss your posts, but I know you'll be back sooner or later.

 

[Willamena]

Take care, Vi. Have a good Christmas!

 

[tomspug]

Merry Christmas and an especially happy New Year! See you soon...

 

[ChristineES]

We will miss you, but if it is for the well being of your spirit, then do what you must. I hope you find peace and I hope you heal. I know about hard times, I have had them, too.

 

[Breathe]

I'll miss reading your posts, but good luck and look after yourself. I hope you enjoy your break. Merry Christmas-Yule-y thing and a happy New Year

 

[TurkeyOnRye]

We must me do what we feel is right.

 

[Charity]

UV, I have come to really enjoy joking with you about our Jello wrestling and have much appreciated your encouragement when I had my surgery.
I hope you return to us soon, refreshed and renewed. I personally will miss your posts and your insight.
I hope that you can find some joy during the holidays and I shall keep you in my thoughts....

Peace, joy and love to you UV.

Jello will never be the same without you.......

 

[Gentoo]

I'll miss you Vi, and hope you don't need to stay away for too long.

 

[Master Vigil]

Peace be with you UV! You know that you are loved!

 

[DallasApple]

Love you..will miss you..and will keep in touch with you whether you want me to or not! I will be your #1 stalker!

Love

Lana

 

[Quagmire]

I just wanted to tell you all
that I will be taking a few steps
back into mySelf for a while.

Which also means I will be taking
a few steps back FROM some other things
in my life
including RF.

I feel that I have been exercising
bad judgement lately,
posting things that I regret soon after.

Tonight was just the inevitable last straw
of my recent faux pas...
and was in the coming either way.

But it serves to point out a truth
I already knew deep down anyway.

This is not the right season for sharing.

I need to spend time in the quiet.
I need to spend time by mySelf.
I need to fix my life.
I need to spend time healing,
growing, and improving mySelf
on my own...
(and privately, with others of like mind)

This year has been in the top three
hardest years of my life.
It is also up in the top three
most WONDERFUL years of my life.
And THAT is so much so due to RF
and all the people I have come to love here.

I will still check my PM's once or twice a week,
as well as my private personal board.

But I will not be reading or posting on the main forum boards.
I need a good long break. :beach:
and YOU need me to take a good long break as well.:areyoucra
It's in everyone's best interest really. :angel2:

Some of you know where you can find me though. :flirt:

~V~

Have a good break Violet. Sometimes it's a good idea to put everything on hold for a bit and take some time to sort things out.

I'm in the process of trying to get my priorities back in order myself; this year has been all about too much pointless worrying over too many pointlesss projects and I've gotten to the point where I'm asking myself, "What's the point"?

Time to get back to basics. :yes:

 

[Troublemane]

Will miss u, but will hope/pray Good Things for you, Vi.

Peace and Light
Mike

 

[Random]

Take care, UltraViolet. Be well and come back when you've found what you're looking for.

 

[dawny0826]

I want you to know that I sincerely wish you the best and wish you peace and happiness while you focus on yourself. It's good to take a little bit of "me" time every now and then. Warm wishes to you.