Growing up, I had a friend who was quite mild mannered. Just a real friendly and laid back type, never wanted to hurt anyone's feelings.
His mom, however was a spitfire, always shrieking and yelling, insulting whoever she didn't approve of. She was a Spanish immigrant, and he'd learned to cope with her mean spirited outgoingness by saying "don't mind my Mom, she's Spanish." And though no one knew how to respond to that, it seemed to diffuse the situations.
My first run in with her, I was sitting on his couch, and she came into the room, took one look at me and said "look at how you're dressed! For shame! You oughta not be allowed in public! If you get raped, I'm not going to feel sorry for you at all!" I was a very shy kid, and my jaw dropped, and I said nothing. My friend shooed her out of the room, and said "don't mind her, she's Spanish" and quickly changed the subject.
I never met any other Spanish people, but I think the way he used it, if it helped him cope, I can't blame him.
His mom, however was a spitfire, always shrieking and yelling, insulting whoever she didn't approve of. She was a Spanish immigrant, and he'd learned to cope with her mean spirited outgoingness by saying "don't mind my Mom, she's Spanish." And though no one knew how to respond to that, it seemed to diffuse the situations.
My first run in with her, I was sitting on his couch, and she came into the room, took one look at me and said "look at how you're dressed! For shame! You oughta not be allowed in public! If you get raped, I'm not going to feel sorry for you at all!" I was a very shy kid, and my jaw dropped, and I said nothing. My friend shooed her out of the room, and said "don't mind her, she's Spanish" and quickly changed the subject.
I never met any other Spanish people, but I think the way he used it, if it helped him cope, I can't blame him.