I can get a traffic ticket and be forgiven.
I agree. The "forgiveness" comes in paying the fine. Or if a good friend comes and pays the fine for you.
I want a God that is more like a real Father, not some punisher who is roaming about seeing who he can smite.
True that....if God portrays himself as a Father and Jesus was like him in all respects, then there is no place for the smiter.
If all God wants to do is keep people alive forever just to punish them with much suffering....that doesn't sound like any "father" I would like.
How could such a Being expect humans to love him? All his activity would invoke, is fear. Definitely not a good basis for a relationship.
My issue with the Atonement is the philosophy of those here on Earth who administer it. I'll freely admit that perhaps there have been too many differing influences in my life. So, from Islam and the Mormons, I see sin and what follows as a mostly non-vindictive teaching, though some experiences in life are most certainly very harsh.
Isn't it true that all of God's teachings try to prevent bad outcomes for us. If only we would simply listen and obey....God can forgive anyone, even gross sinners who have a change of heart. King Manasseh of Judah comes to mind. He was devoted to false gods, even to the point of making his son pass through the fire in sacrifice to them. He was one of the worst examples of wickedness that God had ever seen in Israel. Manasseh’s zealous pursuit of false worship made him like the bloodthirsty deities he worshiped, shedding innocent blood in very great quantity. (2 Kings 21:1-6; 16) In sharp contrast with this, worshipers of the true God endeavor to be imitators of their Perfect Creator, displaying the fruitage of his spirit which is: love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faith, mildness, and self-control. (Ephesians 5:1; Galatians 5:22-23)
God allowed
"the army chiefs of the king of As·syrʹi·a, to capture Ma·nasʹseh with hooks and bound him with two copper fetters and took him to Babylon. 12 In his distress, he begged Jehovah his God for favor and kept humbling himself greatly before the God of his forefathers. 13 He kept praying to Him, and He was moved by his entreaty and heard his request for favor, and He restored him to Jerusalem to his kingship. Then Ma·nasʹseh came to know that Jehovah is the true God." (2 Chronicles 33:11-13)
So we see that it is not impossible to come back from such a wicked life. God's forgiveness is bigger than we are.
But what does God do to the the unrepentant ones? Does he torture them forever to satisfy some fiendish feeling of superiority? Nowhere does the Bible teach that. God has no use for those who want to willfully disobey him. He will simply strip them of their gift of life. He has no need to even keep them alive, let alone punish them forever.
In a well known scripture often cited as an example of God's love, John 3:16 says....
“For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life." People concentrate on the first part of that verse without much thought for the second....the opposite to "eternal life" is to "perish". The Greek word used there is "
apollymi" which means.... "To destroy.....
to put out of the way entirely, abolish, put an end to ruin.....render useless.....to kill....to perish, to be lost, ruined, destroyed"
So the opposite of eternal life is actually eternal death. I find that so much more just and loving than torturing people forever just because he can. There is no justice in such an outcome. To eliminate rebellious humans and angels from existence once they have proven themselves unworthy of the gift, means that those left will enjoy the life God promised for his children in Eden....unhindered....like it was supposed to be in the beginning.
If there is Earthly forgiveness for sin, some do not share that idea because there is far too much poorly concealed glee at someones suffering in this life for their supposed sin. And, some say that the effects of the forgiveness don't show up until the next life. I'd be much more specific but I do not want anyone to think I am attacking "their" religion. My own grief at their lack of mercy is sufficient.
Anyone who rejoices over the death of the wicked is not a true worshipper of God of whom it is said in 2 Peter 3:9....
"The Lord is not slow about His promise, as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing for any to perish but for all to come to repentance."
God doesn't want to lose a single soul, allowing ample time for a change of heart.....he allows us to prove ourselves to him and in the end those who deserve to live will enjoy God's blessing and reward....those who don't will simply be eliminated from existence. It appears as if some want to read so much more into a fairly simple scenario for some reason....