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Survey on Why People Leave Christianity

Soandso

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I can't answer the questions since I'm a life-long Christian with more fath and conviction than ever, but I do offer a relevant comment.

As others have suggested, this survey suspiciously puts the number one blame on rejection of the LGBT culture we now live in. Although that's reasonably likely for a small percentage of the population, there are a multitude of significant reasons noted by others here and various, better studies.

Answers in Genesis contracted an excellent third-party study on the subject and followed up with a book and some videos. It doesn't negate the alleged Bible contradictions, Christian hypocrisy behavior, or cultural opposing moral standards, but it does conclude another reason for youth under age 25 leaving the faith of their upbringing. Through various essay questions, the issue of evolution vs creationism consistently ranked number one on the list. This shouldn't be surprising since it affects everyone's world view, not just members of the LGBT community.

These surveyed kids, all raised in a Christian home environment, had their 6-day Genesis creation account attacked by the public school system, museums, media, and culture since early childhood - starting pre-grade school with the plethora of kiddies' dinosaur books. By high school and college, they succumbed to the powerful influence and embraced evolutionary theory. While I'd accuse their misguidance on lack of proper Christian apologetics teaching, the results are logical. Genesis is the foundation of the Christian faith. If it's undermined, the whole Bible's authority is undermined, and once that's done, one's faith is vulnerable to any number of attacks that seemingly refute it.

Although there are studies (and a lot of testimonies from converted atheists) showing that pain, suffering, and evil in the world is the number one cause of rejecting God, I do believe that the teaching of evolutionary theory in the public school system and society in general has been more effective at giving people freedom from religion than any other cause. It's not only created the popular misconception of the Bible opposing science, but has opened up the door (by dismissing Genesis and undermining the entire Bible's authority) to complete moral relativism. Thus, people today are able to conveniently use science as an excuse to exercise their own preferred moral values. How much easier it is to exercise one's pursuit of self interest and pleasure if there's no accountability to God and his objective standards.

I'll summarize with this. Choosing or rejecting Christianity is a matter of the heart, not the evidence. If one wants to explore the faith with an open mind, or defend the faith when challenged with cultural objections, there's an abundance of evidence supporting the Bible as 'the" authoritative source. But for the those wanting to serve oneself over God and others, there's also abundant material to justify such a position. In the end, the truth will be revealed regardless of the unanswered questions, counter culture standards, or inadequate behavior of Christians. Like most humans throughout world history, I believe there will be consequences to our choices in this life with a judgement day to face. Personally, I take immense joy and comfort in embracing my Creator, Lord, and Savior. I want the gift of love and grace that Jesus offers and the glorious new world, body, and eternal life to look forward to.

I'd be curious to know if you practice a different version of Christianity now than you did in the past. Have you always been a member of the denomination you currently practice in?
 
I believe Matt Dillahunty posted little while back about a very similar poll.
Ironically, I believe the results were very similar, with the exact same things
at the top. Hell, maybe this was the exact same poll. That said, I left Christianity
about six months ago due to the fact of how believers treat other people,
particularly the LGBTQ community. Being someone who identifies with being
bisexual, I take this stance personally. I could not reconcile these things,
so I finally stopped believing. I'm now many things, but a believer in religion
or gods is not one of them. You could call me an agnostic, atheist, humanist,
non-theist, freethinker I suppose. Lol.

Also, when I first left Christianity, I still believed in god, and I initially made this
choice after reading about Deism. However, my thought process dissolved on
that as well because operationally for me, Deism and atheism are the same.
 

Kfox

Well-Known Member
So I just saw an interesting article about a survey conducted about the reasons people are leaving Christianity; or at the very least their denomination of Christianity. I recommend giving it a read. It's interesting


Here are graphs depicting the questions surveyors had to choose from and their given answers

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So if you had the questions above with those answers to choose from, and you are either a former Christian or moved from one denomination to another, what was your reasoning?
I made an attempt of reading the Bible from cover to cover, with the intention of understanding what I was reading. As I read through it, I began to realize it could not be the truth
What was your initial reason for leaving?

What was the final reason that pushed you out the door?
I don't know if I had an inintial or final reason for leaving, for me it was more of a gradual thing
What's gained with your new framework?
Not much. I guess I don't feel like I'm a terrible person deserving of damnation; I feel comfortable loving myself and who I am; warts and all.
What do you miss most from your previous framework?
There were many people in my life whose relationship with them was contingent on be being a part of the church. I miss some of those people
 
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