@dust1n
I'm sorry, this seems like a series of false choices and strawman arguments.
This specific thread is about officials who have declared themselves to be feminists. I would extend my concern if these officials behaved the same way in relationship to ANY Sharia-driven society.
In other words, I would feel the same way if these Swedes wore headscarves when visiting SA.
As for your broader points, these are - IMO - really important questions (start a thread!).
But why would your concerns only be extended specifically to officials who declared themselves to be feminists specifically wearing a headscarf...
You seemed to be saying earlier that because Islamic misogyny exists in Iran, women officials who visit there should not wear the legally imposed headscarf the all women wear there, even if that means cutting off that diplomatic relationships... that seems to me to relate to feminism.
But then why would the headscarf specifically matter? If they didn't wear headscarf and made their show of solidarity, they are still effectively initiating trade with the same country where it still illegal for women not to wear a head scarf. So that makes the foreign official a champion for those women how, exactly?
Saudi Arabia and Oman also has a misogynistic culture. Are you saying we should trade with a misogynistic culture so long as it doesn't require our women governmental officials to wear a headscarf on a visit?
Then I got confused because you brought apostasy into the conversation. So, should women serving in government positions not conduct diplomacy with Iran because it represses women, prosecutes apostasy (which affects men and women), specifically w/o a headscarf only?
You said, "I draw the line at universal human rights, and making apostasy a crime is a direct violation of universal human rights."
You clarified a bit in saying that you would have the same concerns if a Swedish self-proclaimed feminist wore a headscarf to Saudi Arabia. But you have no problem with a self-proclaimed feminist conducting trade with a misogynistic culture that penalizes apostasy, so long as she is not required to wear a headscarf? I mean, that's sort of the crux of my question there.
Also, they aren't straw men or false choices. They are questions as I'm trying to ascertain the reasoning of your objection specifically to this one thing, but not necessarily others.
I think I understand your position in that a self-proclaimed feminist in a governmental position should not be required to wear a headscarf, even if it means cutting off the diplomatic matter, regardless any positive or negative affects that may occur to the people you are showing solidarity with. That's been made clear, I think.
EDIT: To try to make it a little clear, less redundant.