In a thread I made earlier on circumcision, the topic of abortion has been debated.
I would like to offer my pro-life perspective, and I am curious about the perspective of pro-choicers. I would like to understand the opposing viewpoint better, and am willing to be convinced to be pro-choice. Though my conviction on this subject is strong.
The perspective of a pro-lifer is that a fetus is equivalent to a human being. So it is viewed that all these abortions are essentially genocide on the mass scale. Such is the reason such strong convictions are developed on the subject by pro-lifers. If this is your perspective, how can you not feel ever so strongly about it and want to be vocal in your opposition to abortion?
Yet I understand that this thinking could be flawed. I have dozens of outfits, all made probably in a sweatshop halfway across the world. I pay taxes, and my taxes pay for bombs that bomb people. So, do I accuse all taxpayers of beings mass murderers? Do I accuse people who wear clothes of being child abusers? Probably not.
Personally, though I am a pro-lifer, I have the unique perspective of having aborted my own child with my own hands. (In Mexico where it's legal) I’m mentally ill you see, and my wife at the time didn’t want that to be passed on. Do pro-choice people believe that abortion is a mercy killing? Saving the child from poor circumstances and possibly disease. Are we allowed to do these mercy killings, like, is it right to kill out of mercy. I am deeply conflicted.
Bodily autonomy. What can I do when my child is in my wife’s body? Her body, her choice. When I fret about the abortion in the present day, my current partner will remind me these things.
- I had no control over what my wife did with her body
- there was nothing I could have done to prevent it, as my wife had decided what was best for her
- I was not ready to be a father, and could not have provided well for my child
I have not fully accepted these points yet, but I must I think.
I just wanted to offer my perspective and what I have learned on the subject. I would like to get some pro choice perspectives on the topic of abortion.
I think the issue is deeply divisive, at least here in the USA. Whole political and religious divides are because of abortion. It turns people against each other. Let’s understand each other instead.