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The bible and gays

Pudding

Well-Known Member
there is only one truth and one rationality. since when does 1+1=/=2?
In our world, we have many different truth and standards of rationality between religion/country/culture/race/moral in different times.

How is it logical for you to use 1+1=2 to say that there is only one truth and one rationality when there actually have so many different version of truth and standards of rationality in our world?
 

Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
In our world, we have many different truth and standards of rationality between religion/country/culture/moral among different times.

How is it logical for you to use 1+1=2 to say that there is only one truth and one rationality when there actually have so many different version of truth and standards of rationality in our world?
There arent. You need to study basic logic. We have valid cultural/religious worldview but that doesnt mean they are the ultimate truth. There can only be one truth. If you can give me an example where there are '2 rationalities' then i would love to hear it from you.
 

Pudding

Well-Known Member
There arent. You need to study basic logic. We have valid cultural/religious worldview but that doesnt mean they are the ultimate truth.
I haven't say they're the ultimate truth, i say there're many different version of truth.

There can only be one truth.
It's a possible situation that there can only be one ultimate truth, but in our world we have many different version of truth.
Which version of truth is the ultimate truth? I guess each to their own.
As long as one don't force me to follow their version of truth, then i don't see the problem for them to holding their version of truth which may contradict to my version of truth.

If you can give me an example where there are '2 rationalities' then i would love to hear it from you.
Some christians feels it's irrational to not follow their God's moral/law. Others may disagree with them and feels it's irrational to follow their God's moral/law.
Some people feels it's irrational to get married, to them marriage is the grave of love. Others may disagree with them and feels it's irrational to think that marriage is the grave of love. edit
 
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Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
I haven't say they are the ultimate truth, i say there're many different version of truth.


It's a possible situation that there can only be one ultimate truth, but in our world we have many different version of truth.
Which version of truth is the ultimate truth? I guess each to their own.
As long as one don't force me to follow their version of truth, then i don't see the problem for them to holding their version of truth which may contradict to my version of truth.


Some christians feels it's irrational to not follow their God's moral/law. Others may disagree with them and feels it's irrational to follow their God's moral/law.
Some people feels it's irrational to get married, to them marriage is the grave of love. Others may disagree with them and get married.
All of these topics can/need to be debated in order to achieve a ultimate true logical view of the world. there cant be 2 truths. you always say your truth is the ultimate, unless you are irrational yourself, and everybody else is mistaken.
 

Pudding

Well-Known Member
All of these topics can/need to be debated in order to achieve a ultimate true logical view of the world.
I haven't say those topics can't or needn't to be debated.

Is the ultimate truth can be achieve in the debate and realised/follow by all people?
I don't know, maybe can or cannot.
But now as i see obviously everyone only follow their own version of truth.
The truth is like follow God A or God B or God C...etc or not follow any God.
Even scientific claims of truth can be changed if there're another very convincing scientific evidence which can disprove it.

there cant be 2 truths.
It's possible there can't be 2 ultimate truths, and i haven't say there're 2 ultimate truths.
I say there're many different version of truth in our world, not different version of ultimate truth.

you always say your truth is the ultimate, unless you are irrational yourself, and everybody else is mistaken.
I haven't say my version of truth is the ultimate truth, but my version of truth is convincing or rational to myself, if it's not convincing or rational to myself then it'll not be my version of truth.
 
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Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
I haven't say those topics can't or needn't to be debated.

Is the ultimate truth can be achieve in the debate and realised/follow by all people?
I don't know, maybe can or cannot.
But now as i see obviously everyone only follow their own version of truth.
The truth is like follow God A or God B or God C...etc or not follow any God.
Even scientific claims of truth can be changed if there're another very convincing scientific evidence which can disprove it.


It's possible there can't be 2 ultimate truths, and i haven't say there're 2 ultimate truths.
I say there're many different version of truth in our world, not different version of ultimate truth.


I haven't say my version of truth is the ultimate truth, but my version of truth is convincing or rational to myself, if it's not convincing or rational to myself then it'll not be my version of truth.
i believe, as it is apparant, that the word 'truth' already inhabits the 'ultimate' in it self, i pointed out that its 'ultimate truth' to make it simpler, like saying american americans(duh, we already know that americans are american!). so there cant be 2 truths. and one can arrive at it through discussion, arguments and evidence. I presented an argument and examples for why it is irrational to do such and such but there was no disagreement our counter argument made, so we must assume and believe that it is true.
 

Pudding

Well-Known Member
i believe, as it is apparant, that the word 'truth' already inhabits the 'ultimate' in it self, i pointed out that its 'ultimate truth' to make it simpler,
If you prefer then i'll change the word to "knowledge".
In our world, we have many different knowledge and standards of rationality between religion/country/culture/moral in different times.

And everyone may consider only their knowledge to be the truth to themself, others' knowledge which may contradict with their knowledge may not be consider as truth to themself if they think it's unconvincing/illogical.

And then we got some people who wants to claims that their knowledge is the ultimate truth to everyone, i think it maybe okay for them to do so, but if they wants to force everyone to follow and abide by their knowledge, then it's a behaviour that i can't agree with.

like saying american americans(duh, we already know that americans are american!).
I can't see your meaning or it's relation.

so there cant be 2 truths.
It's a possible situation that there can't be 2 ultimate truths.
I haven't say there're 2 ultimate truths.

and one can arrive at it through discussion, arguments and evidence.
I doubt anyone have already achieve the ultimate truths, even if they're, there's no ways for me to know they're genuine or not.
Many different people may say they have already achieve the ultimate truths, but when their different version of ultimate truth contradict with each other, i wonder which one is the ultimate truth?

The ultimate truth for me is the one which is convincing/logical for myself.
Which is why everyone may only follow their paths of ultimate truths which they think is convincing/logical to themself.

Which people's version of ultimate truth is genuine?
If they sounds convincing/logical to me, then i'll agree they're correct, otherwise i'll only follow my version of knowledge which leads to be my version of truth.

I presented an argument and examples for why it is irrational to do such and such but there was no disagreement our counter argument made, so we must assume and believe that it is true.
Can you specify which post have your argument and examples that why it is irrational to do such things?

You presented an argument and examples for why it is irrational to do such and such things, then you think there's no disagreement or counter argument made, which made you proceed to declare your argument to be the ultimate truth that everyone must assume and believe that it is true?
Are you serious?
 
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Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
If you prefer then i'll change the word to "knowledge".
In our world, we have many different knowledge and standards of rationality between religion/country/culture/moral in different times.

And everyone may consider only their knowledge to be the truth to themself, others' knowledge which may contradict with their knowledge may not be consider as truth to themself if they think it's unconvincing/illogical.

And then we got some people who wants to claims that their knowledge is the ultimate truth to everyone, i think it maybe okay for them to do so, but if they wants to force everyone to follow and abide by their knowledge, then it's a behaviour that i can't agree with.
Okay its very good that you changed the word, it shows a healthy mind who seeks to understand. Knowledge is a fine word and absolutely many people contradict eachother and many of these people can be proven wrong.

I can't see your meaning or it's relation.
saying 'ultimate truth' is like saying 'american americans' or 'round circle'. One already knows that americans are american or that circles are round similarly one already knows that truth is ultimate and therefore there is no need to use the combination of 'ultimate truth' just like 'round circle'.

It's a possible situation that there can't be 2 ultimate truths.
I haven't say there're 2 ultimate truths.
No, thats fine.
I doubt anyone have already achieve the ultimate truths, even if they're, there's no ways for me to know they're genuine or not.
Many different people may say they have already achieve the ultimate truths, but when their different version of ultimate truth contradict with each other, i wonder which one is the ultimate truth?

The ultimate truth for me is the one which is convincing/logical for myself.
Which is why everyone may only follow their paths for the truths.

Which people's version of ultimate truth is genuine?
If they sounds convincing/logical to me, then i'll agree they're correct, otherwise i'll only follow my version of truth.
through debate and dialog it is possible.
Can you specify which post have your argument and examples that why it is irrational to do such things?

You presented an argument and examples for why it is irrational to do such and such things, then you think there's no disagreement or counter argument made, which made you proceed to declare your argument to be the ultimate truth that everyone must assume and believe that it is true?
Are you serious?
Its post #1210. check it out yourself, if you want.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Dont take it too personal or be disgusted by it: What do you think of anal sex(since we're talking about homosexuality)? I heard many females says: 'I am no hooker so i dont want to do that.' Are you of a similar extraction or do you think gays are in their perfect right to do it(without being denegraded or equalized to 'hookers')?
I personally think anal sex is disgusting, particularly hetero anal sex. (For some reason, anal between men isn't as disgusting to me.) But not all gay and bisexual men are into anal sex in the first place. Oral sex is the most common form of gay male sex, anyway.
 

Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
I personally think anal sex is disgusting, particularly hetero anal sex. (For some reason, anal between men isn't as disgusting to me.) But not all gay and bisexual men are into anal sex in the first place. Oral sex is the most common form of gay male sex, anyway.
I think if she can stay clean there cant go anything wrong and if she knows when and how to move her behind to turn you on then its perfect. Gay men are basically the same though perhaps gay men know eachother even better, since they are of equal mind-set and gender they can have a greater sexual experience together. Oral sex is just as irrational as anal though, the mouth is for 1) breathing (if you dont breathe through the nose), 2) drinking 3) eating 4) talking 5) brushing teeth and hygiene. not for sex, infact if somebody does oral on you he/she doesnt experience some sort of tasty orgasm in her mouth its all taking place in the brain. but with the sex organs you experience direct joy of touch, namely because they are for sex. same with anal in most cases, im not so sure how a woman would experience anal joy at all. unless it somehow rubs against the vaginal wall - but that wouldnt be the anal doing the pleasure instead the other organ.
 

Pudding

Well-Known Member
Okay its very good that you changed the word, it shows a healthy mind who seeks to understand. Knowledge is a fine word and absolutely many people contradict eachother and many of these people can be proven wrong.
Well, even if a person A think that he've prove another person B that B is wrong, that doesn't automatically makes A credible. How do we know if A's proof is genuine or not? We examine it by using our own logic/reason, but then everyone's logic/reason may differ greatly between them.
It's back to the principle that everyone probably follow the knowledge which they feel is convincing/logical to themself, which leads to them that it's their version of truth.
The many variety of different knowledge which leads to the many variety of different truth.

saying 'ultimate truth' is like saying 'american americans' or 'round circle'. One already knows that americans are american or that circles are round similarly one already knows that truth is ultimate and therefore there is no need to use the combination of 'ultimate truth' just like 'round circle'.
Thanks for explaining, and since i have changed the word to knowledge, i think the confusion is also clear.

No, thats fine.
Okay.

through debate and dialog it is possible.
It may possible.
But since some knowledge is convincing to some people, some other knowledge is convincing to other people, another knowledge is convincing to another people. Different knowledge which contradict to each other leading to different truths which also contradict to each other.
Person A think the knowledge a is convincing to himself which leads to his version of truths a' .
Person B think the knowledge b is convincing to himself which leads to his version of truths b' .
Person C think the knowledge c is convincing to himself which leads to his version of truths c' .
...etc
Then many different version of truths occur...

Its post #1210. check it out yourself, if you want.
Post #1210:
I have my own rationalizations why these things are wrong, wholly apart from the bible and i believe even stronger arguments than given by religion. however i wouldnt mind if my partner asked me to perform anal sex on her or if she did a blowjob i wouldnt give a crap about these rationalization for these things being wrong.

My reason are: while the vagina's primarely function is sex the anus and mouth are not used for sex and thus are basically not 'made' or 'designed' to be used for these actions. the anus and mouth have different primary functions. so it is wrong to use wrong body parts for something they arent made for. for example you wouldnt put your penis into somebodies ear because the primery function of the ear is to listen not to have sex with. How good is this, what do you think?
It's just your personal prefer standards to say that this or that is not made or designed to be used for some specific actions.
Which absolute authority which agree by everyone, have say and proves that only vagina is made and design for sex and anus or mouth is not or can't be?
People just making rules that suit for themself, i see no problem for it, unless someone force everyone must follow his rules then it's the problem.
Someone feels that anal/oral sex is not their preference? Fine, then don't practice it, problems solved.
Some asexual person have no sexual feelings or desires even about the vagina, is it reasonable for them to forbid everyone for having sex? edit
 
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Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
Well, even if a person A think that he've prove another person B that B is wrong, that doesn't automatically makes A credible. How do we know if A's proof is genuine or not? We examine it by using our own logic/reason, but then everyone's logic/reason may differ greatly between them.
It's back to the principle that everyone probably follow the knowledge which they feel is convincing/logical to themself, which leads to them that it's their version of truth.
The many variety of different knowledge which leads to the many variety of different truth.
If somebody proves to you that 2+2=4 you dont need to use any logic or reason anymore. If you have some specific examples how it can be otherwise then please share them.

It may possible.
But since some knowledge is convincing to some people, some other knowledge is convincing to other people, another knowledge is convincing to another people. Different knowledge which contradict to each other leading to different truths which also contradict to each other.
Person A think the knowledge a is convincing to himself which leads to his version of truths a' .
Person B think the knowledge b is convincing to himself which leads to his version of truths b' .
Person C think the knowledge c is convincing to himself which leads to his version of truths c' .
...etc
Then many different version of truths occur...
Again i would like an example. Do you have something specific in mind here? Like person A saying that there is only 1 god and person B saying that there are many gods?

It's just your personal prefer standards to say that this or that is not made or designed to be used for some specific actions.
It's indeed true that one of vagina's function is sex, but other function also follow such as excretion.
One of anus's function is also excretion, why sex can't be a function for it?

Mouth's function is for eating and breathing and talking and many other functions, why sex can't be a function for it?

Which absolute authority which agree by everyone, have say and proves that only vagina is made and design for sex and anus or mouth is not or can't be?
1) Why can't it be a function for it (anus)? Because it is mainly used for excretion. Vaginas arent mainly used for excretion unless shes a virgin and doesnt have a partner. Also you cant derive the same sexual pleasure from touch the way you experience it with your main sexual organs.
2) why sex can't be a function for it(mouth)? same as above.
3) Which absolute authority say and proves that only vagina is made and designed for sex and other parts aren't? Listening to authority is basically a logical fallacy. Just because somebody with alot of knowledge says a thing doesn't prove it right, merely by her saying that.
 

Pudding

Well-Known Member
If somebody proves to you that 2+2=4 you dont need to use any logic or reason anymore. If you have some specific examples how it can be otherwise then please share them.
Your using of easy math 2+2=4 in comparison of other complex things is inappropriate.
Not everything is so easy as 2+2=4, for example scientific claims have been improve many times and those inaccurate knowledge will be replace by new knowledge if proven false.
Other example is like the claims of the miracle and existence of deity, it can't be prove objectively, everyone have their different claims which may contradict to each other.

Again i would like an example. Do you have something specific in mind here? Like person A saying that there is only 1 god and person B saying that there are many gods?
Yes, your given example is acceptable.

1) Why can't it be a function for it (anus)? Because it is mainly used for excretion. Vaginas arent mainly used for excretion unless shes a virgin and doesnt have a partner. Also you cant derive the same sexual pleasure from touch the way you experience it with your main sexual organs.
"Because it is mainly used for excretion" is just an arbitrarily reason.
Who say it must be the same sexual pleasure? Who say there's guaranteed no pleasure about it?
How do you know that every people who have practice their prefer sex don't have sexual pleasure with what they do? Have you already try it? Does your personal experience represents all of them?

2) why sex can't be a function for it(mouth)? same as above.
This is just an arbitrarily reason.

3) Which absolute authority say and proves that only vagina is made and designed for sex and other parts aren't? Listening to authority is basically a logical fallacy. Just because somebody with alot of knowledge says a thing doesn't prove it right, merely by her saying that.
If it's irrational for anyone to find some authority which they find convincing to them to follow, then how credible is your argument in the comparison? Can it be also say that just because you think that you've a lot of knowledge which only convincing to yourself, and your explaining of this knowledge doesn't prove it right, merely by your saying that?
 

Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
Your using of easy math 2+2=4 in comparison of other complex things is inappropriate.
Not everything is so easy as 2+2=4, for example scientific claims have been improve many times and those inaccurate knowledge will be replace by new knowledge if proven false.
Other example is like the claims of the miracle and existence of deity, it can't be prove objectively, everyone have their different claims which may contradict to each other.
we can use deductive logic which is as simple as math:
A is B
C is A
Therefore, C is B


"Because it is mainly used for excretion" is just an arbitrarily reason, it can be just as arbitrarily apply to vagina.
Who say it must be the same sexual pleasure? Who say there's guaranteed no pleasure about it?
How do you know that every people who have practice their prefer sex don't have sexual pleasure with what they do? You've try it? Your personal experience represents all of them?
How is it arbitrary? Its an absolute fact that it is used for excretion and not for other functions, including sex. And i didnt say that you cant derive pleasure from it, just not the same sexual pleasure as with the main sexual organs. Just think of oral sex, does the partner who performs oral sex on you get some sort of tasty orgasm in her mouth? No. But with the main sexual organs you do most of the time. Therefore the mouth is not its primary function to have sex with. same with anal, there is no anal liquid orgasm.

If it's irrational for anyone to find some authority which they find convincing to them to follow, then how credible is your argument in the comparison? Can it be also say that just because you think that you've a lot of knowledge which only convincing to yourself, and your explaining of this knowledge doesn't prove it right, merely by your saying that?
my argument doesn rely on authority. i am not trying to prove myself right by the sheer power of my voice.
 

Pudding

Well-Known Member
we can use deductive logic which is as simple as math:
A is B
C is A
Therefore, C is B
What is A/B/C ?
Please use this deductive logic in reality example.

How is it arbitrary? Its an absolute fact that it is used for excretion and not for other functions, including sex.
In order to claim it to be an absolute fact, please explain why you think so and present absolute evidence.

And i didnt say that you cant derive pleasure from it, just not the same sexual pleasure as with the main sexual organs. Just think of oral sex, does the partner who performs oral sex on you get some sort of tasty orgasm in her mouth? No. But with the main sexual organs you do most of the time. Therefore the mouth is not its primary function to have sex with. same with anal, there is no anal liquid orgasm.
There is prostate in the anal sex which can occur sexual pleasure.
If someone think there is no sexual pleasure in the oral/anal sex, then don't practice it, no anyone is forcing anyone must practice it. Some people have sexual pleasure in oral/anal sex? It's their rights to do what they like to do, if they don't like to do it, they'll stop doing it.

my argument doesn rely on authority. i am not trying to prove myself right by the sheer power of my voice.
No problem.
 

Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
What is A/B/C ?
Please use this deductive logic in reality example.


In order to claim it to be an absolute fact, please explain why you think so and present absolute evidence.


There is prostate in the anal sex which can occur sexual pleasure.
If someone think there is no sexual pleasure in the oral/anal sex, then don't practice it, no anyone is forcing anyone must practice it. Some people have sexual pleasure in oral/anal sex? It's their rights to do what they like to do, if they don't like to do it, they'll stop doing it.


No problem.
Men(A) are mortal(B)
Aristotle(C) is a man(A)
Therefore, Aristotle(C) is mortal(B)

im too lazy and simply very unexperienced to place my argument in these premises.

The proof for the anus or mouth having different primary functions is simple: think of your daily life, what are you using these organs primerly for?
 

Pudding

Well-Known Member
Men(A) are mortal(B)
Aristotle(C) is a man(A)
Therefore, Aristotle(C) is mortal(B)

im too lazy and simply very unexperienced to place my argument in these premises.
No problem, and i can't see how your example relate to what we discuss.

The proof for the anus or mouth having different primary functions is simple: think of your daily life, what are you using these organs primerly for?
You mean the proof is common sense?
If it is, then everyone's common sense may not be the same.
And this common sense is just as an arbitrarily argument but not the absolute fact, maybe it can be call as personal opinion rise from personal version of common sense.
 

Princeps Eugenius

Active Member
No problem, and i can't see how your example relate to what we discuss.


You mean the proof is common sense?
If it is, then everyone's common sense may not be the same.
And this common sense is just as an arbitrarily argument but not the absolute fact, maybe it can be call as personal opinion rise from personal version of common sense.
Are you primerly using your mouth for sex, to bite people or what? how is it not common sense?
 

JoStories

Well-Known Member
How do you deal with someone who has actual arguments, without necessarely adhereing to religious scripiture, that certain sexual acts are irrational?
How do I deal with it? I don't. You are free to think some sexual acts are irrational but I believe that whatever a couple wants to do and the act is fine with both of them, it's their business, not mine.
 
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