Victor said:
Then let the finger pointing begin! Enjoy.....
I think you're missing my point.
When a person adopts a religious view of existence, including a set of values and morals and life goals, they are doing this for themselves, according to how they choose to look at their experience of reality and their own internal personality traits.
When this same man tries to impose his view of existence on others, it doesn't fit, much of the time, because other people have other experiences, other views of reality, and other value, morals and life goals as a result. So why should the make-up of the first man dictate the life of the second?
If, on the other hand, they get together and realize that they're two different people, with different experiences, and different views of reality and different values, morals and life goals as a result, then they could establish a system of rules that allow them each to BE DIFFERENT while not allowing those differences to harm each other. In effect, it's a compromise based on practical reality itself, rather than on any one man's vision of reality, or on what reality means.