I was actually talking about any type of “love”, but my example is just one instance, between a man and woman, could be potentially “sexual”.
But my reply is not just about one type of love, but about all kinds, whether to between man and woman, or to kins (to parents, to children, or to siblings), to fellowshipw to country, to leaders (eg to president or PM, monarch), to a specific religion or to deity or deities, etc.
But my real intentions in that example, is to show, where the “love” is not reciprocated between two parties. Can you really really make love into law, where both parties must reciprocate, or be punished if one doesn’t reciprocate.
It doesn’t have to be man and woman. You can substitute the parties in my example for something else.
For instance, you can change the character in my example, to a Christian and a Jew. A Christian can love Jesus. But a Jew don’t follow Christianity, so a Jew wouldn’t love Jesus. My question would change to:
Can you by law punish the Jew for not “loving” Jesus the way a Christian do?
Do you get what I mean now?
Law is about stating a “rule” that whole groups of people are compel to follow, or risk some sorts of punishment, if such rules are broken or breaching the “law”.
Law is about enforcing the rule, and punishing anyone who break it. Do you get what I mean by “law”?
What I have been saying over and over again, that you cannot make “love”, or bond, or “compassion” or “kindness” into “law”.
You cannot punish a person for not showing showing compassion or kindness or love...especially if you are trying to turn these values into “law”.
Jesus tell you to “love thy neighbor”. This is a guideline, not a rule for being a “Christian”. You cannot force or compel a person to follow such a rule. Can you punish a person if he don’t?
Jesus also tell you “to turn the other cheek”. Can you really be punished for not?
I can turn the other cheek, if I am slapped. But there are limits of how many slaps I would take. I am not a masochist. But I don’t necessarily mean “slapping back”, but that is a possible option; no, I am talking about stopping the slapping, or just walking away.
But if a person do slap back, would a Christian be punished for not turning the other cheek? Can you excommunicate or arrest a Christian if he doesn’t follow Jesus’ teaching of not turning the other cheek?