I get the feeling that you are more interested in reiterating your special universalist view of truth, then in dealing with the issue. Yes, I get it. You'll take truth from an intellectually disabled person on heroin just as you would from your favorite prophet. I understand.
While it is certainly a goal of mine to take truth from retarded people and junkies just as openly as I’d hear out a respected prophet, I fear my prejudices and misconceptions in seeing myself as superior still often obstruct my sight. I assure you that you cast praise upon me that I have done nothing to deserve.
What is relevant is that this means that G-d's Word to you means anything you understand or relate to. That's fine. To each his own. But that means that if I present something, like the Law of Temple dedication as an explanation of why Matthew's got it wrong, there is no way to get past the boundary you've made. Unlike other Christians, where the common ground is Scriptures.
God's Word, to me, implies eternal truth, useful in any culture or era, quite independently of what I can relate to. I can relate to the drive you feel to see me as an enemy, and in my less thoughtful moments I fall into that trap. Yes, I do require myself to understand words so well I can explain it to others before I am willing to accept them as truth. This part of your praise I am willing to accept.
In case you think I discount the OT wholesale, my favorite passage is in Isaiah:
The wolf will live with the lamb,
the leopard will lie down with the goat,
the calf and the lion and the yearling together;
and a little child will lead them.
The cow will feed with the bear,
their young will lie down together,
and the lion will eat straw like the ox.
The infant will play near the cobra’s den,
and the young child will put its hand into the viper’s nest.
They will neither harm nor destroy
on all my holy mountain,
for the earth will be filled with the knowledge of the Lord
as the waters cover the sea.
This sounds rather universalist to me.
So if you want - and maybe that's what you've been saying all along- you can claim that Matthew himself recognized as you did, that Scriptures was not G-d's Word. Rather he believed that only the verses that he related to were G-d's Word. And based on that he argues that the Pharisees were not keeping G-d's Word. Well that's fine. I don't know enough about the NT to argue.
But it also wouldn't make sense to argue with you about NT passages, when essentially you get to choose the weapons I use, namely: which verses are G-d'w Word and which are not.
It would make more sense to argue about why a given verse/passage should be considered G-d's Word or not.
Again, the source of the passage is irrelevant to me. NT, OT, bathroom stall, junkie, whatever. Furthermore, I'm choosing your weapons for you no regardless of whose turf you think we are on, because in your thoughtless devotion to the Torah, you choose to accept as gospel things no reasoning could possibly confirm like God's preference for those who rest on Saturday. In your insecurity, you then accuse me of thoughtlessly accepting the verses I like, a charge you are guilty of yourself. All the while, you fail to present any reasonable case that I accept anything without thought. An accusation with no evidence amounts to nothing but slander. Your insecurity makes you blind to your crime. This is how hypocrisy works.
Also, if you are referring to the verse, "and you should love your friend as yourself," it doesn't say I should love you as if you were a part of me. It also doesn't say that all of mankind should be considered my brother. It also doesn't say that I should love anyone unequivocally as Pro. 8:13 makes clear. So I don't think I am nullifying G-d's Word here.
I am referring to MANY verses when I say God's Word says to love everyone, including that passage from Isaiah I quoted. How could such a world come about where the young of former predator and prey sleep in the same bed together if we will not love our enemies? How can Judism in the form you defend it ever bring this perfect world it prophesies to fruition?
You think it is all well and good to love your friends and to hate your enemies. How does doing this truly make you a good man? Don't your enemies often do the exact same thing from their own perspective? You are exactly the same, yet you believe that God judges you good and your enemy evil. Your rational position here seems terribly insecure.
And does Pro. 8:13 make it as clear as you say? Please explain for me why it is good, and the will of God that we do not love unequivocally. I know the Bible gave great King Solomon a platform to trumpet himself as the wisest ever and elevate his writings as being worthy of the title Scripture. I bet king Solomon thought he was pretty smart when he figured out the true mother's identity by threatening to cut a disputed baby in two. I imagine him in a proud moment, bragging to all his court what a clever king he is, making sure after the applause has died down that his scribes recorded this moment of wise king Solomon's glory.
Were I to hear this story of anyone I knew, I would think them minimally clever and completely unwise. I would be struck by the cruelty first, and second by the lack of self-awareness that makes him actually able to be proud of this and want this savagery recorded for posterity. King Solomon puts all the wisdom of King Joffrey on display.