So, turns out sperm donor wants to talk to and about his son. Cool, whatever. It's his kid. But sperm donor hasn't mentioned to his son that I'm female, and he's shown his son older male pictures of me instead of newer ones. Ones where I actually look happy instead of a miserable heap of flesh. I want to burst their bubbles, because they are grasping to find similarities between the two of us and sperm donor. Put my baby picture of me next to my mom's baby picture, we look almost identical, and I look at more like her still in the face.