I tend to stick to 'genderqueer' nowadays but it's very frustrating.I'll keep you in mind when I probably do cry later today. I've pretty much always known I'm a girl, but just never allowed to be one. But even within the trans community bigendered and questioning people, from my experience, often get pretty much about the same experience as bisexuals from homo-and-heterosexuals, which is a mixed bag of ridicule-and-acceptance. For people who end up breaking and shattering people's black and white view of the world, it's surprising and stunning how many themselves end up being pretty dogmatically black-and-white themselves.
It must be a blissful ignorance to never be made aware of how big something like gender actually does mean to us.