Hi
@IndigoChild5559
I think an element of common sense needs to be applied to the matter. Yahweh understands things in context - our actions and our heart. So I see the matter as this...
what about picking just enough fruits for a dinner get together?
If you could gather the fruit before the Sabbath and didn't, then this would be unnecessary work. However, if you were in dire need of food, I'm sure the Most High would permit this. Conversely, I think it would be more acceptable if you were doing this to feed a brother or sister who arrived unexpected and was hungry.
What about running from your home to the car?
It depends on the motive I think. If you are doing it to get their quicker, this would be wrong - as you are in essence "hurrying along your day" or keeping to a schedule, hence work. However, if it was pouring rain then walking from your home to your car would be foolish.
How far can you walk before it becomes work?
I don't really go by the Sabbath's day walk rule, as sometimes a good walk on the Sabbath to spend time in prayer to the Father is a blessing. However, as a general rule I would say to walk no more than when it becomes hard work or tiresome. For a 20 year old, it may be a couple of miles, for a 80 year old, 500 meters.
It says do not kindle a flame. Can you turn on a stove?
Kindling a fire in the wilderness or even the first century would have been much different than today. Gathering (maybe even cutting) wood, kindling and tinder and then trying to ignite it IS work - whoever you are and however skilled you are. But flipping a switch on a stove doesn't really get a sweat going and the pulse up
an you cater a meal for 100 people? How about cook for six people?
It depends on context. If it's for jollies or a random get together, I would say that isn't acceptable. However if it was because of a state of emergency (a hurricane etc) I think it would be acceptable. I might even go as far as to say it would be acceptable for a large Sabbath gathering where praise, worship and prayer are the goal. After all, the Levites worked on the Sabbath for the greater good of Israel.
If you own a business, can you have other people work for you on the Sabbath?
No. Trying to find a way "around the system" will not go unmissed by Yahweh. Such a ploy wouldn't fool me and I'm a simpleton. So what about El Elyon who sees and knows all the motives of the heart?
Can you open mail, considering that some of the mail may be business or bills?
Interesting point. I don't personally. I leave for nonsense for Sunday (or Monday!)
For Jews, we don't have the option of everyone doing what is right in our own minds, because historically the laws of Shabbat have had to be enforced. We depend on halakha (Jewish law) to tell us what is and is not work.
I understand that all too well. I don't subscribe to that myself but follow the Word alone. The water gets very muddy when Rabbinical interpretations are added which, though they sought to help, end up causing confusing and building burdens - in my personal opinion.
In fact, all of the above is my opinion and not a matter I would fall out with anyone over. However, I do know that Yahweh looks to the heart and gave us the Shabbat as a blessing, not as curse. All our lives in the diaspora are very different, but He knows this (and knew this) and surely expects us to act wisely and according to His Torah, in context - following the heart of Torah. Again, this is my opinion though.
Thanks for responding.
Love & Shalom