A while ago Breathe taught me of that concept. In a nutshell, it is the religious tradiction (as practiced by the Sikh) of insisting in treating everyone in much the same way as both participants and subjects of a common meal with no differentiation of status.
It sort of "clicked" to me and I have hardly forgot of it since.
It just makes so much sense to me.
People can and should always be able and willing to simply share meals in discreet yet participative acknowledgement and respect of their common needs and common heritage. Everyone, no matter how noble or rotten, how succesfull or how desperate, should meet common ground often and solidly in the blessed meeting of need and duty that is the basic act of making a meal a concrete reality.
Not only that, but I see lots of merit in the idea that people should leave aside any social status at least once a day and just sit in mutual acceptance and acknowledgement. It seems to me to be even wiser than the concept of the "Sabbath".
People all too often attempt to avoid each other and refuse to acknowledge each other, to seek protection and hiding in social differences.
I don't think that is really a good idea to follow those impulses, though. People can hardly bring themselves to trust each other without a certain degree of mutual acknowledgement and accessibility, after all.
Yet for all the wonder and bliss the idea brought to me, I found out that a friend of mine - a particularly heartwarming one at that - feels unease with the concept. I was surprised and failed to quite understand the reason, but she gave a general statement of unease about the feeling of "need".
I feel confused by that, so I was wondering if anyone around here would be so generous as to give me some input. What are the downsides, both real and perceived, that you may see on the Langar practice?
It sort of "clicked" to me and I have hardly forgot of it since.
It just makes so much sense to me.
People can and should always be able and willing to simply share meals in discreet yet participative acknowledgement and respect of their common needs and common heritage. Everyone, no matter how noble or rotten, how succesfull or how desperate, should meet common ground often and solidly in the blessed meeting of need and duty that is the basic act of making a meal a concrete reality.
Not only that, but I see lots of merit in the idea that people should leave aside any social status at least once a day and just sit in mutual acceptance and acknowledgement. It seems to me to be even wiser than the concept of the "Sabbath".
People all too often attempt to avoid each other and refuse to acknowledge each other, to seek protection and hiding in social differences.
I don't think that is really a good idea to follow those impulses, though. People can hardly bring themselves to trust each other without a certain degree of mutual acknowledgement and accessibility, after all.
Yet for all the wonder and bliss the idea brought to me, I found out that a friend of mine - a particularly heartwarming one at that - feels unease with the concept. I was surprised and failed to quite understand the reason, but she gave a general statement of unease about the feeling of "need".
I feel confused by that, so I was wondering if anyone around here would be so generous as to give me some input. What are the downsides, both real and perceived, that you may see on the Langar practice?