Perhaps our circumstances were a little odd. The dream of leaving England was strong and when the chance came we took it. We could have started a new company here but professional courtesy dictated that we not create competition for the buyers of our UK company. The sale of the company returned enough to invest and scrape by anyway so life of leisure it is (yes that was a joke, with three kids, a hubby and a house to look after, what leisure???)1
We have no kids, never had any, but we have always had a multitude of cats and we also have three homes, two that are rentals, so what life of leisure?
We have the least amount of cats that we have ever had now, only eight, but we cannot go on vacations and leave them. We could find a pet sitter as we did in the past when we had more than twice as many cats but I do not like leaving them with pet sitters anymore, they are too precious to me, and besides as I think I told you, my husband does not like traveling. I have to drag him out of the house just to go grocery shopping.
You are just a spring chicken. Enjoy your younger years because they won't last. My husband is 10 years older than me so who knows how long he will be around, and then I will have nobody because I have no other family except a brother who is seven years older than me and I never talk to him anymore. But the way I survive is just to live one day at a time and not worry about the future. It will come and I will deal with it as I always have.
I try to look at the bright side. In many ways life is better now than when I was 50 and I can still do anything I could do at age 50. I no longer have to worry about going to school to advance my career, and I will never have to worry about money, and we have fewer cats to care for and none that are at death's door right now.