I cannot accept (and I've tried) that a rape is justification to end life.
Rape already ends lives.
The morning after pill is not available over the counter just as the birth control pill isn't available over the counter. They're still available to those who seek them.
People who have just been raped do not think rationally.
I just don't understand why a woman...wouldn't want the (insert curse word of choice) who raped her behind bars. And to do so...you have to file a police report and you have to submit evidence via a rape kit. I'm sure that's absolutely horrifying. I personally would subject myself to it if it meant that the (insert curse word of choice) behind my rape would be placed where he/she belongs.
I was molested and raped when I was much younger. I didn't know what to do but to internalise it. And because it was done to me by family members (who are no longer a part of my life for other reason) I know the complete and utter drama it would create.
Other people don't because they are too scared, just want it to go away, just want to forget it. To report it- it means possibly being blamed for your own rape, ignored, mocked by authourities, forced to go to court over it and tell complete strangers what happened and relive it just so the rapist can get a slap on the wrist.
(Which is why I am so against this Blame the Victim mentality that seems to be oh so popular anymore. I don't care if the woman was butt-naked and drunk out of her mind and alone in some back alley, IT DOESN'T GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO RAPE HER.)
Most rapes are commited by people the victim KNOWS. That makes the situation even more difficult.
I'm not attacking you, personally. What happened to you is personal and I'm not asking you to expound about your personal situation...so please don't read that in this post. I'm airing my questions...I'm asking questions because I truly don't understand the logic behind not doing certain things.
Further, with an option available...such as the morning after pill...which is 75% effective if taken within the first 72 hours after sex...I don't know why a woman would subject herself to a possible unwanted pregnancy when the odds are in her favor that with treatment...the pregnancy can be avoided all together.
I don't understand how a woman can find any logic in believing that an abortion...ending a life...is the better alternative to preventing a pregnancy altogether.
When you've just been through a violating tramautic experience- you don't think properly or logically or rationally.
This is another reason I want the Morning After Pill OTC. To go to a doctor means questions- something a lot of rape victims just aren't prepared to go through or want to go through.
It isn't a black and white issue. :/ There are so many things that factor into this.