Even a cursory study will show the the word "logos" means the thoughts or logic behind that which is spoken. As such, the usual meaning of "logos" shows that it is a thing not a person. How does a thing becomes a person? What was it before it became flesh, i.e. a person? Was Jesus a thing before he became a person?
Understanding that figures of speech are not meant to be taken literally, that they are tools of grammar used to emphasize something, could John 1:14 be a figure of speech?
If we take it literally then we have a thing becoming a person. I have problems with that. On the other hand, if we take it as a figure of speech, we can see that God used it to show just how perfectly Jesus represented Him and carried out the plan, the logos, God had in mind from the beginning. Jesus did correctly say he always did his Father's will, despite the fact that it went against his own will. I'm thinking of the Garden of Gethsemane when Jesus asked God if there was some other way besides crucifixion. He asked that three times. He ended up saying, "not my will, but thine be done." If Jesus were God that wouldn't make any sense unless God has a multiple personality disorder. Clearly Jesus had a separate will from his Father.
I think there are very few who begin a scriptural study without already knowing Jesus is God. After that, it is a rather simple matter to find verses that support that claim. If that is accepted, it must be weird to constantly see God praying to Himself, asking Himself to do various things including obeying Himself and believing that He'd raise Himself from the dead. Apparently God granted Himself the power of judgment (John 5:27) and to sit on His own right Hand (Eph 1:20). The one really weird thing is that in the end He will subject Himself to Himself (1 Cor 15:28). How can these things be? How do they fit with the doctrine that John 1:1 says Jesus is God?
I perfectly understand the tradition of John 1:1. I also understand the power of tradition to make God's word of none effect (Matt 15:6). Either all verses say Jesus is God or none of them say He is God. If we think some say one thing while others say something else, perhaps it's time to reexamine our thinking.
I've given you my understanding of how John fits with the other verses that seemingly make it quite impossible for Jesus to be God. The other alternative would be to say John does say Jesus is God, and make the few verses I mentioned agree with that. By the way, I could give many more verses that would seemingly make it impossible for Jesus to be God. Here's one more:
1 Cor 8:6,
But to us [there is but] one God, the Father, of whom [are] all things, and we in him; and one Lord Jesus Christ, by whom [are] all things, and we by him.
How can that be made to say Jesus (purportedly God the Son) is God? Looks to me like the one God is the Father?
Again, I'm open to John saying Jesus is God, but only if all other verses make the same claim. I guess the other option would be to just ignore verses like 1 Corinthians 8:6. I doubt there are very many Christians who want to do that. Something's gotta givee
God bless