Earlier I spoke of descending into absurdity and that is precisely where your reply has led you.
I made the mistake of getting involved in this discussion, and now I bear some responsibility for the consequences of my statements--which is to say, some responsibility to you. I wish I hadn't said anything in the first place.
All attempts to define reality are absurd. Words and concepts cannot define anything; they can only attempt to describe. That's an important distinction.
You say words are subsequent to reality (which of course they are)...
No, I said words are subsequent to knowledge.
...but you’re using that truism as an argument to dismiss words as representing reality while in the same breath calling upon language to argue for reality!
I dismiss words as defining reality. I do not call upon language to argue for reality, but use language to demonstrate language's own absurdity.
As with the rest of us, you are here, on this site, because you have something to say, something to communicate to others that you believe to be the case. But when faced with the logical (illogical) conclusion of your argument you presume to shut the door on the use of language, blithely unaware of the consequences for your own position.
Oh, that's rich. I can't count how many times I've had this discussion. I am more aware of the consequences of my position, and yours, than you are. I don't say this to make myself important; this discussion is very tedious to me because in all the years I've had it I have made very little headway with the people I've talked with. People who think as you do have a lot to lose by sacrificing their point of view. I used to think it was important to try to help them; not so much anymore. Everyone will get where they need to, eventually, whether I try to help them or not.
You maintain, using language, that there is an independent state of ‘goodness’. You must know what you mean by that since you cannot believe a thing to be what it is without having an understanding what it is.
That's exactly backwards, and that's your problem. You think your word games constitute knowledge. On the contrary, you cannot have an understanding of what something is without first believing in it.
So, let me ask you a very straightforward question: What is ‘good’?
I can't define it. I might be able to describe it, though not definitively. I can offer some examples fairly readily.
Let's start with you. You are good.
And I’m not expecting ‘kindness’ from you, just interesting discussion. So please, if you don’t mind, may we have less of the quasi-mystical, superior tone?
Whether you expect kindness or not is irrelevant; it is my responsibility. And if you don't like my tone, don't talk to me. I don't want to play ego games but neither will I pretend that I consider your point of view as valid as mine or that I think you cling to it out of some virtue like intellectual integrity. I do not believe I am superior, but I certainly believe my viewpoint is. If you don't like it, then, as I say, don't talk to me.
Finally, I think "interesting discussion" is often nothing more than intellectual self-pleasuring and a waste of time. The search for truth is serious business, not a casual pastime or ego-stroking exercise.