Sgt. Pepper
All you need is love.
I understand your point about what I believe are misrepresentations of God in the scripture and certain Christian theology. I wasn't raised in that kind of Theology and never believed in hell and the exaggerated crap in the OT and warped Book of incoherent revelation.
So you figured it out on your own! You KNOW full well that God the Father isn't like that! Why not dedicate your life to revealing the true loving Father?
You're barking up the wrong tree with your preaching and proselytizing.