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Things just get worse and worse.

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Oldest trick in the book.
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I just talked to him on the phone and he said he'll be here to pick it up tonight. He doesn't really "win" if he puts me out. I have a lot of stuff and the place has a really bad roach and bedbug infestation. He'll have to put all of my belongings out. So it's not like putting me out makes it easier on him. It's best for me to move and take my stuff. I explained that to him and he seemed to get it. This place isn't going to be ready for anyone to move in for quite a while and needs thousands of dollars in repairs and modifications to bring it up to code. Plus, I'm paying his water bill, which is around $300.

If he's scamming me, oh, well. Then I'm just screwed. But I don't see why he'd bother doing that. He's a slumlord, but he doesn't seem completely heartless.
 
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Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Dammit. The ****ing city won't turn my water back on until I pay them $264 in full. They won't turn it back on with just a partial payment. This is ridiculous. I have other bills to pay and I'm not rich. It's raining, so I might as well collect rain water, but that's probably illegal! :mad:
 

Onyx

Active Member
Premium Member
If he's scamming me, oh, well. Then I'm just screwed. But I don't see why he'd bother doing that. He's a slumlord, but he doesn't seem completely heartless.
That's what I was concerned about, that he would take the money and not hold up his end of the bargain.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
That's what I was concerned about, that he would take the money and not hold up his end of the bargain.
Well, we'll see. If he doesn't, there's nothing I can do about it and I'll be homeless, lose my pets and all my belongings. Oh, well.
 

Saint Frankenstein

Here for the ride
Premium Member
Nevermind. I'm completely ****ed. He changed his mind and I'm going to be put out on Saturday. Plus, he's threatening to come after me for damages and back rent. It seems he wants to completely destroy me. I guess he truly is a heartless, sadistic *******.
 

Spiderman

Veteran Member
I've lived in homeless shelters, halfway houses, and currently in a sober house.... It's better than you think, just not at first
 

1137

Here until I storm off again
Premium Member
As someone poor my whole life and such, I feel the focus needs to be on an attitude change. For example, you can't he enraged by the city expecting you to pay for what you use. You can wish we lived in a more socialist or Rawlian society, but of course they want you to pay for using your water. Like another user said, you have to drop the idea of "I just can't do it". If you have literally no money, you can't be waiting to get a job. Get something crappy, something at least to help get by until you move. I'm glad you're seeing someone though, it's a good first step towards a better life.
 

Riders

Well-Known Member
I've lived in homeless shelters, halfway houses, and currently in a sober house.... It's better than you think, just not at first
ARe you an alcoholic? I'm a recovering sex addict some halfway huses do take sex addicts but probably not in dallas, theyre strict here.Of course I don't need it but its nice to know just in case.Theres a Baptist shelter in dallas out here, ive heard good things about it.
 

Riders

Well-Known Member
I can pretty quickly tell who's never been poor just by their responses to topics like this. If the issue was simply a matter of perseverance there wouldn't be so many heaps of poor people. It's a lot more complex than many idealistic views on the matter might suggest. A lot of catch 22's and a lot of things you take for granted if you've never had to live without it for a long period of time. Also the geography of where you live can greatly impact it. For example if you live in a very car-eccentric city, that can negatively impact how easily you can get around for job opportunities. Fact is in this economy there are more people seeking work than there are jobs. Someone who's young with little to no work experience and out of school doesn't have the advantages that many of you take for granted or don't even see that you have.

Anyways, my main two pieces of advice would be getting treatment, and not being afraid to ask other people for help. I don't know about in a city, but there is generally always someone who wants some kind of work done, even just an extra pair of hands. It may not always be easy to find, but just inquiring about trying to get some work can often result in people simply donating some cash to you. I find it helps to explain a tiny bit of your situation sometimes, but you gotta gauge which kind of person you are talking to. If you can go to any church you are comfortable with and become friends with some people there, it's always a good way to get some help. Some might have some work, some might buy you clothes and yet some might give you a few dollars for food. That's been my personal experience anyway.

There are also some programs that can help you with job seeking and job training, particulary if you are diagnosed with anything like you mentioned in an earlier topic. Those diagnosies can easily qualify you for help from vocational programs that are usually state run but required by the federal government. So even if you don't have any experience you can get some through those programs. They are designed for people in your kind of situation who want to be integrated into the workforce and be able to stay in the workforce.

For more short term though, really just presenting the best you can and following up and getting the interviewer to like you is often a good way to get something like a fastfood job. At least it's worked for me in the past a couple of times. Even if you find it hard to hold a job for more than 2 or 3 months, that's two or three months that you have some income.

But yes, stick with the treatment. It will really, really help. And again don't be afraid to ask for help. Becoming part of some community will make that a lot easier, hence why I suggested a church.

Edit: Also, if you need new clothes ever, Thrift stores are your friend. Pair of pants for a dollar? Heck ya. And never neglect food banks + food stamps. Your state might even have a cash assistance program you can apply for. You may not be living the most comfortably but you will survive with some comforts if you can manage it well enough. Also if you can find someone who likes you and you trust becoming or getting a roommate can greatly reduce expenses if they can find work or have some income. But be warned get the wrong one and they will just sit around all day doing nothing. Anyways I say this all with some experience myself. take at least some of it wiht a little bit of salt. Life is kind of random and unpredictable. So be adaptable and above all learn to enjoy the moment from time to time, least you get consumed worrying about tomorrow.


As a poor person I agree with you but working in a restaurant as a waitress or night club as waitress or bartender will get you lots of tips and hopfully get you making money and bring cash home immediately.
 
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