My only point to follow this, then, is that it should be expected that communications are going to break down, and that there are going to be problems like the ones we are talking about if there are multiple accepted meanings to words, and everyone who wants to use them has to go to a library or a college-campus first to be sure they are using the term correctly. Does that, at least, make sense?
Not quite what I was driving at. Maybe let's go this direction...
What I think I'd like to see are a couple of simple things:
- An awareness that many words are polysemic - that is, that they have multiple meanings and usages (aka, communication is complicated)
- Respectfulness of others usages of words - that is, instead of criticizing someone for using a word "wrong," aim to understand their usage of words so differences are less of an obstacle to communication
I suppose I have to accept that a god needn't be supernatural. If even an anthropomorphic god existed,and presented itself in this world to all of us, I would probably not think of this being as "supernatural," but rather my view of what was naturally occurring would simply expand.
It's up to you to decide what your god-concepts (or lack thereof) are to be. I just like to point out that for some, gods are not supernatural entities. Some Pagans have experiences similar to what you describe here, and it is regarded as a natural (not a supernatural) occurrence. Some of that has to do with the earth-centered roots of the religious movement. All things are viewed as "natural" even of others might label them as "supernatural." And then there's the undercurrent of pantheism that runs through the movement, where gods are not anthropomorphic beings, but the forces of nature themselves (which are personified in mythology as anthropomorphic beings because it makes for a more relatable story for many folks).
In any case, it gets a bit more nuanced than is typically assumed. I mean, the Abrahamic god is hands-down viewed as a "supernatural being," and general English dictionaries reflect that cultural bias. So do many encyclopedias, frankly.