One thing I notice is that all professing to be spiritual have negative and extremely judgemental views of religion but people who have a healthy religion find positiveness in all other views outside their own.
And right away, I begin to see the signs of division You have just divided the world into a "them and us" paradigm, in which "they" are negative and "us" are positive. Surprised you don't see it.
But on the contrary, there are many quite "spiritual" people (the Dalai Lama or Mohandas Gandhi, perhaps) who while not ostentatiously religious, are quite accepting of other views.
Ive not met a religious person call me anything negative. Ive heard many "spiritual (and not religious)" people have, though.
Oddly, as an atheist, I've met very, very many religious people -- even on this site -- who have called me quite negative things, because I have not god-beliefs. And those who I have seen as "spiritual" in their own way (there are names, though I won't mention many -
@metis and
@RabbiO and
@arthra and others on other forums) who have been nothing but just and caring in their comments. Have you not met them?
If you dont have a religion, what are you doing to express your spirituality?
Why does it take religion to express spirituality? What ever happened to beauty? To knowing that you don't know and can't know everything, but that you can seek? Of seeing the poignancy of living a finite life in an infinite universe? Of acknowledging your connectedness to all the things that you know about? Those are deeply spiritual thoughts, in my view. Thinking "I get to be with God some day" is not so much spiritual but wishful thinking.
Religion is a word. In itself, it has no bias.
It comes from the Latin
religare, that to which "I bind myself." Once bound, sorry, but you do indeed have a bias.
Babies are innocent. Adults are sinners.
Pure judgement. Yes, there are adults who are sinners. But being adult does not automagically make one a sinner. Even playing with yourself doesn't make you a sinner. (And by the way, babies play with themselves and GASP! get erections! Oh, my!)
I rather be a happy naive person than rant about how my ex religion does this or that religion does that. Youre not judging people.
No, actually, I'm not. I'm describing the history of the world -- not as I "judged" it but as it has played out. The Catholics burned the Protestants, the Protestants burned the Catholics -- and everybody hated the Jews. That's just how it was.
If your spirituality doesnt respect peoppe, of course you dont have a religion.
That is a pure nonsense line. If you don't recognize what the "Humanist" in my profile means, then I am not here to enlighten you on my respect for people. And I can do that without religion, thank you very much. (In fact, too often I've seen that religion is the great "preventer of respect for others."