I deleted the others and wanted to address these as a whole
In response to what would determine my gender, it would be my chromosomes. According to my chromosomal makeup, I would still be female, as God created me to be.
Are
you your chromosomes?
How do you know
who you are as a male or female if it is only defined by chromosomes and sex?
What brain structure would determine one's gender? In the cases where the individual is XX or XY, why should they be allowed to alter what their DNA has determined.
Gender has to do with the mind and sex with the organs. We are a combination of our gender and sex. So, what makes me a woman is not just by chromosomes, sex, and organs. Outside of those, I am female because that is how I think and "be." You and I probably do not know what that means because we are not transgender. However, for me, I'm not defined by my sex, chromosomes, and organs; so, there is a "me" that makes me a female (in other words, I know I am not a male without looking down there), I just. Know. Not knowing doesn't make it immoral. We just don't know.
I am not excluding those born as hermaphrodites. I am speaking purely in those who are born with the Chromosomes either XX or XY. Feelings should not cause us to alter our bodies in any way.
One can strongly dislike the body that they are born with, but that is completely normal and people all around the world are forced to live with it. Why should a select few get to change something about themselves that they dislike. If someone was overweight and they showed no intention of loosing excess weight that made them hate themselves, would it be right for them to not try to accept what they have been given and make the best of it like the rest of the population. They are free to act however they choose, but they should not be allowed to alter the body that they were given in order to change something of that nature.
It's not fully relate to ones feelings. Put feelings and identity aside, transgenderism is when someone experiences
gender dysphoria.
Gender dysphoria is a diagnosis that refers to people whose gender at birth is contrary to the one they identify with. It is a product of highly complex genetic, neurodevelopmental, and psychological factors.
Feelings are involved, yes. A lot of distressful ones. They are the
result of one having GD not the cause of it.
You would have to understand what gender is apart from sex. Once you understand the differences, it may be easier to understand it before you disagree.
I am not saying that these people are not loved. They are just an exception. I posted purely asking about those who are born with gender that fits into the XX and XY categories. I am not trying to offend you in any way.
How can someone be loved if they are considered an "Exception"?
The consensus is
1. We are born with two aspects that make us male or female: gender and sex
2. For majority, our sex/organs/chromosomes (SOC) and our identity as a male and female
because of these things is our gender.
3. One person would be born male: both SOC but their
identity as a male or female does not match their SOC (their body).
4. So, they become distressed. Some people (so hear testimonies from young people going through this) if not most don't like their physical bodies. It isn't just "I'm depressed, let me change my sex" it's much deeper than that. It's the core identity of them is not what it should appear to be.
5. So, the idea is that gender (mind that makes one male and female) and SOC, when aligned, when we see our bodies we think "that's
us. I'm a woman/man." Not so in transgender. So, it's not a feelings thing. It's involved but it's an identity thing.
Two things, though.
a. You would have to understand what gender. Not even medical doctors understand it fully
b. That, and if you haven't felt a pull in your identity and finding it growing up as many youth do, it would be hard to understand.
When you don't understand it, it's hard to say whether one should change their sex or not. Kinda of like saying one shouldn't have medication even though they have depression because it's all about feelings.
Goes deeper than that.