Unveiled Artist
Veteran Member
Someone is in denial, that is for sure.
A lot of people are. Some are fearful. Some are aggravative. Of course these people may not know they feel this way but, like you say, behavior defines character (sorry, not a word for word quoter), so maybe that's who they are and don't realize it until someone who doesn't know them tells them. Then again, they only hear from those they trust.
Everyone has their safety zone with things like this.