We are called the United STATES for a reason. It is so that each state can have a say in who the president is. Without the electoral college, most of the states wouldn't have any say at all. The president would be elected by those high population areas on the east and west coasts, and most of the states would be 'fly over country' indeed, and totally to be ignored..which is a really bad idea.
You will notice that the constitution, when taken as a whole, is a document/plan designed to protect the minority from the majority; to prevent what de Toqueville called 'the tyranny of the majority,' or to be more blunt, mob rule. We are NOT a democracy. We are a republic, and the needs and wants of the mobs on the coasts MUST take into account...not 'be subsumed by, but 'take into account".., the needs of those who live in the middle. After all, it IS those in the middle who grow all the food and have most of the manufacturing that keeps the folks on the coasts fat and happy, and able to be comfortably liberal. Ignore them and you get dust bowls. Metaphorically speaking, at least. That's not good for anybody.
I can also guarantee you that if there ever came a time when a Republican won the popular vote and a Democrat won the electoral college, that you would be firmly protecting said electoral college with all your might, mind and typing skills.
Believe it or not, I would be doing the same thing right along with you.