Given the fact that if you google "Mormon," you'll find at least 100 anti-Mormon websites for every one pro-Mormon website, is it any wonder members of the Church are guarded? We explain our beliefs and then by tweaking one or two words, our beliefs are made to look absolutely laughable. By leaving out a few important details, explanations take on a whole new meaning. With just a little bit of creative license, doctrines become something no practicing Latter-day Saint would even recognize. Don't even try to tell me that this doesn't happen constantly.
And yet there is always this assumption that Mormons are going to lie and that you have to trick them into telling the truth. Why can't anybody understand how offensive that is? And ultimately, what would we accomplish by lying? That's what I don't understand.