Ahm, thanks, but it was your definition of "real" that I asked you for.
Well, you are framing if you only accept one definition of definition. So I will use one definition of definition, because there is not only one definition of definition: the action or the power of describing, explaining, or making definite and clear.
Definition of DEFINITION
I could describe how the word "real" is used, explain how its usage can change depending on how it is understood and make clear how different understandings of real get different results.
So if you don't subjectively accept my subjective usage of definition and use another, it ends here. You apparently don't accept in effect, that I can do it differently, because you define as true what all the world is for all humans as we, because you are in effect the correct source of the proper and true definition of what the world is and what we are as humans for an universal we.
That is the game. We are playing in effect limited cognitive relativism. Not that the world is subjective as such nor that it is objective as such, but that there is a limited variation of how the world is to a human, including you and I, that can't be done just objectively.
The joke is, that if you don't catch, when you are subjective and claim, that you are objective, you can subjectively deny that my variation as subjective is relevant, because your subjectivity is the only relevant subjectively as it is an in effect objective standard, because you subjectively think so.
That is not unique to religious humans, but rather it is common in some humans including non-religious humans.
So here it is in all its absurdity. You have do it before, namely you speak for a we that is all humans. I then treat that claim as a falsifiable statement and the falsification is ,that your "we" is not a part of objective reality. It is in you, in your brain as a subjective behavior for which I just don't accept your "we" and do it differently. That is all.
And for real, here it is as science observed as behavior in humans including you and I, because we can be studied for how we subjectively act.
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A concept formulated by the American sociologist William Isaac Thomas (1863–1967) that ‘“*facts” do not have a uniform existence apart from the persons who observe and interpret them. Rather, the “real” facts are the ways in which different people come into and define situations’. Famously, as he and his research assistant and wife Dorothy Swaine Thomas (1899–1977) put it in 1928, ‘If men define situations as real, they are real in their consequences’. Such a ‘subjective’ definition of the situation by a social actor, group, or subculture is what Merton came to call a self-fulfilling prophecy (as in cases of ‘mind over matter’). It is at the heart of symbolic interactionism. See also constructionism; frame of reference; framing; perspectivism."
https://www.oxfordreference.com/view/10.1093/oi/authority.20110803104247382
So if you want to play science for the word "real", we are playing sociology, psychology and a host of other sciences, which treat subjectivity as real and some times different in different humans.
So what frame of yours is it, I must accept as real not just for you, but for all humans a we? Well, it is that you are always objective, with reason, logic and evidence, even when you are not.
So here is the definition of real that you want: You and a limited set of humans and not all humans are the only real humans, because you as a limited sub-group of humans, have by definition the correct understanding of the world.
And all I do, is to contline to do it differently in a limited, real set of cases of differences in subjectivity.
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Mikkel