I find it very sad, and a little disturbing, that some people today can't make room for men who become close friends with other men. There are in fact men who love each other dearly, and its entirely platonic. We sometimes joke about it as a "bromance."
The Bible talks about Jesus and "the disciple that he loved," and some people immediately jump to the conclusion that they must be gay. Same thing with David and Jonathan. "After David had finished talking with Saul, Jonathan became one in spirit with David, and he loved him as himself." MUST be gay! SMH