this cannot be a 'truth'
What you are saying is that God determines which children will die a painful slow death, who will be assaulted, who will be raped by whom and when, who will become a thief, who will become a murderer and so on and so on
How can you seriously believe that God determines everything?
His own word says:
Deut 30:15*“See, I do put before you today life and good, and death and bad. 16*[If you will listen to the commandments of Jehovah your God,] which I am commanding you today, so as to love Jehovah your God, to walk in his ways and to keep his commandments and his statutes and his judicial decisions, then you will be bound to keep alive and to multiply, and Jehovah your God must bless you in the land to which you are going to take possession of it.
17*“But if your heart turns away and you do not listen, and you are actually seduced and bow down to other gods and serve them, 18*I do tell YOU today that YOU will positively perish. YOU will not lengthen YOUR days on the ground to which you are crossing the Jordan to go to take possession of it. 19*I do take the heavens and the earth as witnesses against YOU today, that I have put life and death before you, the blessing and the malediction; and you must choose life in order that you may keep alive, you and your offspring, 20*by loving Jehovah your God, by listening to his voice and by sticking to him; for he is your life and the length of your days, that you may dwell upon the ground that Jehovah swore to your forefathers Abraham, Isaac and Jacob to give to them.”
that doesnt sound to me like God has already decided If i'm going to obey him or not. Its his encouragement to advise us what we 'should' choose. He has left the decision up to us. How can you say he decides the fate of everyone?
Continue to read and to notice. From the beginning, man is made corruptible to the forces of ignorance and evil. Because of this, when God left them, they decided ignorantly on their most basic necessity and were punished irrespective of their innocence. The tower of Babel fell, and from this, the sons of man divided themselves, their language, and their goals. Noah was told that his family would be spared, but that everyone and everything else would die in a huge flood. God opened the heavens and poured. And it was the understanding that God repented, according to the testimony. Abraham was commanded to sacrifice both of his sons. One, he abandoned to an unwed servant. The other, he nearly offered as a burnt offering, to the same God who promised that his seed would live and prosper. The firstborns of Egypt were killed by the sins of their fathers, and of their king; whom God hardened. The Israelites worshipped a golden idol made by the high priest himself, Aaron.. God then tells Moses that He can get rid of them, and continue with Moses and his family. Again, it is said that God repents. But, when Moses returned to the doings of his own brothers, of Abraham, he slaughtered 3000+ of them.
Don't think you can read your way into God's favor, as the Jews and Muslims do. Their words are based on corruptibility, and proceed from their mouths full of the same ignorance that plagued our father, Adam. God does not repent, like the ignorant do. He planned, created, and manipulates according to His own being and knowledge.
So, according to His own Word:
Luke 12:6-7
Are not five sparrows sold for two assars? And one of them is not forgotten before God, but even the hairs of your head have been all numbered; therefore fear ye not, than many sparrows ye are of more value.
John 13:38
Jesus answered him, 'Thy life for me thou wilt lay down! verily, verily, I say to thee, a **** will not crow till thou mayest deny me thrice.'
God knows the hairs on your head; both in their growth and in their falling away.
The leaven of the Pharisees is in the bread we've eaten. It is only removed by awareness, and power from God.
